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[–] [email protected] 178 points 1 month ago (6 children)

What did Dave think of it? None of us matter if Dave actually appreciated the (albeit minimal, noncommittal) gesture

[–] [email protected] 90 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yeah this is between them. Leave them alone or offer support. Negativity won't help anything

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

don't put it on Twitter if you don't want people seeing it and possibly talking shit. it's not between them anymore. social media has fucked people's brains, main character syndrome.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If it was between them they wouldn't be posting it on social media

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

It's fun to take pics with my friends and share online.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago

I would like to point out that actors are usually contractually obligated to maintain a specific appearance. Stamos may literally have not been able to shave his head in solidarity, so while seemingly noncommittal I think there could be more to the gesture. As you say, Dave is the only authority on the matter either way.

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[–] [email protected] 124 points 1 month ago (20 children)

Being mad about this instead of Dave Coulier "dating" Alanis Morisette when he was in his 30s and she was 17 is like being mad at Obama about wearing a tan suit and not all the drone bombings or mass-deportations.

We're bad at picking what to be pissed about.

[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Well you say that, but this Stamos guy is a fucking asshole, why didn't he simply go rogue and shave his head and shutdown whatever production he is working on while his hair grows back, like those people working on it with him can take a few months without pay

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This was my first thought. I bet his hair has it’s own contract and he couldn’t break it.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Having been forced to make a gesture at gun point a bald cap remained his only option

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

It really did rain on my wedding day and I did not see the irony of the situation. We were inside so it really wasn't a problem.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It was forecasted to rain on my wedding day and my wife nearly died, so I bought seven purple umbrellas and one big white umbrella so they could take pictures in the rain. It didn't rain until after pictures. Is that irony?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Even our photos were inside because we got married in this sort of high-end mall that was on the courthouse square and had a giant ballroom at the top floor. We had the ceremony and reception there, and there was a very pretty fountain on the ground floor where we did the pictures.

My brother also got married in a ballroom. In Alabama. In view of the "First White House of the Confederacy." We are not Southerners but his wife is. It was also a Gone With the Wind themed wedding. They claim they have no racial prejudices but after that, it was pretty hard to buy. And that was before the day my brother decided to post to everyone on Facebook that he would yell the N-word when he was alone in his car because it was transgressive. (But he doesn't do it to be racist, he swears!)

Really looking forward to visiting him in Atlanta in a couple weeks. I haven't seen him in 10 years and was hoping to keep it that way, but my mom is elderly and won't take a plane and so I'm driving her. At least I'm going to be staying with friends instead of him.

Sorry, I needed to rant for a second.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I wonder if they can cut it out.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

John checking his xitter replies like "oh mylanta 😩"

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

cutting out fake drama? they can't, they crave it.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Ok, I kinda get it. His looks are his living, without those he has nothing. But seeing as that is the case, he might have found another way to support his friend rather than an empty, performative stunt.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 month ago

rather than an empty, performative stunt.

looks to me both parties are enjoying themselves in the photo, doesn't look empty or performative at all. if Dave Coulier was cool with it, thats all that matters imo

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Isn't shaving one's head an "empty performative stunt"? It doesn't provide any benefit to the cancer patient.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I don't think so if you're fond of your hair. Even if it grows back, it's a symbolic sacrifice in solidarity--a nice firm hug. A bald cap feels like a limp hug or a pat on the head.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not that anyone should feel obligated to shave their head, but one major thing is that his hair is literally his livelihood. He may be under contract not to change his appearance, and shaving one's head (especially at that age) might do permanent damage.

I doubt that Dave would want John to shave his head. But they're good friends, and our opinion from the sidelines doesn't really matter that much.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 month ago

I'm gonna give Stamos the benefit of the doubt as say maybe he needs the hair for work. No seriously. He's an actor, their appearance and image are work relevant.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I see nothing wrong with doing a gesture in support of a friend.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

I think what people see as wrong with it is these sorts of gestures are usually actually shaving your hair off in support. As a way of saying you're in this together and there to support the individual. This method comes off as disingenuous because you can just take the cap off and go back to your normal life, the other person can't.

Ultimately it's between them, but if you're going to publicize it. It comes off as shallow and an attempt at making yourself a part of someone else's illness

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 month ago (4 children)

So what you’re supposed to cut your arm off to support a one armed friend?

Cut it out!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Hehe, β€œcut it out”. Hehe.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

A. Who gives a fuck if Stamos didn't actually shave his head.

B. Fuck Dave Coulier.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

Look at his hairline. He's balding anyway so just gave it a try to see if he likes it. Made a PR campaign out of it, end of story

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Coulier looks good bald. Stamos, not so much.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

I think when you're probably shooting (as in filming) stuff you can't just shave your head in the middle of an ongoing project.

Otherwise I'd agree with the sentiment he should actually shave his hair but in this specific circumstance it doesn't feel disingenuous.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Guess he really is paranoid about his hair

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

He's got a great head of hair. My wife thinks he's a bit of a nutter though, but in a good, nice way.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Cut ✌️

It πŸ‘‰

Out πŸ‘

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I wish I looked as good bald as they do. I have a head as lumpy as an overripe orange.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Very true! I look like an overripe fruit and I smell as though that fruit were a durian.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Which is considered a delicacy in some places. All about knowing your people.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Maybe he expected the fans to have mercy on him.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

This reminds me of that reddit story about a mom who was pissed and went off on a hair stylist who wouldn't shave his head for her daughter who had cancer

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