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[–] [email protected] 8 points 17 hours ago

Right now, as someone not from the US, star spangled banned would ruin the evening more than anything else I could think of. Everyone can recognize it, arguments would follow.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago

"what what in the butt" with the dance, no censorship to save them when it's live.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

I did this with “Everybody Hurts”. Everybody went outside.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago

I looked for this to upvote it, but y’all ain’t listed it yet so here goes:

The Drugs Don’t Work by The Verve

[–] [email protected] 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Saw this irl once. Two dudes, totally tone-deaf decide to sing Aqualung by Jethro Tull...

...as a duet.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago

Same bar had a dude that would sing Disney princess songs every night. He never went home alone.

Shout out to Dante's in Seattle!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida. Long song with not a lot of singing.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Wrecking Ball- Miley Cyrus.

I could butcher anything, but that, I'll butcher it with glee.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago

If you would have said Party in the USA, I would be up there butchering it with you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

A Passion Play.

The entire thing. Including the Hare Who Lost His Spectacles.

(Side note: I love this album, but as a karaoke performance I can't imagine it'd go down well)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

In the UK any of the below should do the trick, with the added bonus of possibly getting you stabbed and/ or glassed:

Gary Glitter - My Gang

Rolf Harris - Jake the Peg

Lostprophets - Last Train Home

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago

"Peace and Love (Blind Man's Penis)" by John Trubee

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald. It's a Debbie Downer of a song, it lasts forever, and it gets really repetitive.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

I don't know how you got to that anwer, this would go hard as balls

[–] [email protected] 1 points 16 hours ago

I'm killing the "hyped up" vibes and getting everyone to cozy comfyville

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Meat Loaf - I'd Do Anything For Love - the original album version where there's around 20s of motorcycle sounds and vocals start around 1:50.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

This was my favorite song to play on a jukebox back in the day. I could put it on 3 times in a row for a dollar at the local bar, and it would take over the sound system for over half an hour. There are enough transitions in it that it flows back into itself fairly well.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Such Small Hands - La Dispute

I think I saw you in my sleep, DARLING

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago

La Dispute would get my up my guy.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My Heart Will Go On - Celine Dion

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago

I literally cannot imagine a situation where the whole group doesn't sing along to this. This is a batter answer to, 'what song to bring people out of their shells?'

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Hum the Russian national anthem

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago

Was thincking the same thing

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I Need a Hero. Can't live up to the best version, but I'll try my best!

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

Baby Shark, followed by Wonderwall.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

The Smallest Church in Saint-Saens

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In the arms of an angel....

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

"Hey hey wait. Let's throw in one It's Not Unusual"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

The Mash movie theme song...

Through early morning fog, I see Visions of the things to be The pains that are withheld for me I realize and I can see That suicide is painless It brings on many changes And I can take or leave it if I please The game of life is hard to play I'm gonna lose it anyway The losing card I'll someday lay So this is all I have to say Suicide is painless (suicide) It brings on many changes (changes) And I can take or leave it if I please The sword of time will pierce our skins It doesn't hurt when it begins But as it works it's way on in The pain grows stronger, watch it grin Suicide is painless It brings on many changes And I can take or leave it if I please A brave man once requested me To answer questions that are key "Is it to be or not to be?" And I replied, "Oh, why ask me?" Suicide is painless It brings on many changes And I can take or leave it if I please And you can do the same thing if you please

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago

If you went up there and did the entire songs including informing when they movements began and ended … frankly you’d be a legend.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The Mountain Goats' "No Children", but very intensely.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Depends on the crowd. I did this song once because I was just so excited to see it (any Mountain Goats, really) available.

The crowd absolutely loved it. People at the front row singing along, having a great time. A guy thanked me after. Surreal. Like a "then everybody clapped" moment.

Must have been a bunch of Moral Orel fans, I guess? Or, I suppose after people butchering Bohemian Rhapsody all night, this was the palate cleanser. Who knows.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

I would be so hyped that someone is playing The Mountain Goats in public I would probably join in.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago

Instrumental version of Tequila

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (4 children)

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald by Gordon Lightfoot. A jaunty little sea shanty about a ship sinking in a storm and killing everyone on board.

https://youtu.be/FuzTkGyxkYI

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I sang that two nights ago, at our local open mic. Went over very well, but then again the average age was probably over 70.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

Urgh just whatever I think might be fun at the time, it's always bad

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Bloodhound Gang - A Lapdance Is So Much Better When the Stripper is Crying

https://m.soundcloud.com/bloodhound-gang/a-lap-dance-is-so-much-better

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

I find it quite a thrill...

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