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Am I projecting? What do you think, fellow lemmings?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 23 minutes ago

The whole world is indeed in a bad mood and the reason is we’re all addicted to social media, which makes people miserable.

It’s impossible to fully patrol one’s territory in cyberspace. That means our hippocampus never sends the β€œall clear” signal which would allow us to relax from fight or flight mode.

As a result, the entire population of humanity is in an unprecedented state of hypervigilance.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago

I dunno man, genocides and overtly fascist takeovers just have a shitty affect on the vibe.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago

There's an ongoing genocide and nobody is fighting it or even condemning it, bar a few weak powers like Yemen, DPRK, South Africa.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

Chinese people seem pretty happy on Rednote.

They mostly empathize with us Americans for our life of economic struggle for our wealth class in exchange for nothing but Subsistence.

They're confused as to how it's allowed to happen. They thought a lot of true horror stories about our health insurance murder industry and living paycheck go paycheck statistically unlikely to be able to cover a 400 expense was their government's propaganda, and are horrified it's not.

It's amazing how many protections non-wealthy people have there.

I now completely understand why our government doesn't want us having casual conversations with actual societies of people, as opposed to capitalist slaughterhouses like we are here in the US. Mooooo....

Also their cars are so high tech ours are in the stone age by comparison. No wonder they can't sell them here, they'd eat our lunch. App controlled call the car to pull up to you, captains chairs that power rotate into new configurations, on and on.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 57 minutes ago

There was a soviet joke:

A refugee from the sovjet union was not surprised to learn that most of what his government had told him about his country way lies - it wasn't that great.

However, he was shocked to learn that they were telling the truth about other countries.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 3 hours ago

Climate change is getting worse and the world in general is sliding into fascism. The odds of things getting better in our lifetimes is very low. I'm only happy when I'm focusing on what's around me and not the big picture, because the big picture is bleak.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

All honesty, I tend to be optimistic to a fault and try really hard to be cheerful.

Everything starts to crack once socioeconomics comes up. The news lately is all about how everything is about to get worse. "This is collapsing, that's more expensive, getting a slice of diminishing wages is going to be even harder now! They're cracking down here and forcing ads there." Etc etc.

When I'm knee-deep in fixing up my servers or making art or being with my people, everything is just peachy!

But yeah, "How next money tho?" Usually starts the mental downward spiral.

I love living, can do a ton of things, love learning, but I don't get along with churning out a repetitive task for increasingly worthless currency.

The world outside of what I'm choosing to do feels entirely impossibly out of our control. So I try to balance being informed with staying sane.

Like damn I don't need much, can't folk just be left alone? Lol

Wonder if a lot of people feel like I do?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 hours ago

oh yeah I certainly do. I mean even the churning would not be so bad if there was any indication it would end.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 hours ago

It is and if you can't see it it's because you are being dragged down too.

I'm going to remark something nobody seem to be focusing on. Humans didn't evolve 1 million years to eat processed food and be around artificial everything.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

Seems like mostly just people in the west because western world order is now visibly collapsing.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Everyone seems to be doomscrolling

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (8 children)

I'm just waiting to die at this point. Fuck this life. Fuck this world. I'd kill myself if I wasn't such a pussy. I keep living with the vague hope that things might get better, but deep down I already know it won't.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

Your are not a pussy. Self perservation instinct is hard to resist, hopefully it remains that way. TC.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Same page club, except the vague hope.

Honestly the vague hope was keeping me at my lowest until I learned to understand and completely accept that our world is ending by our own hands, detach from being on the human team, and just gawk at the freak show of the exploitative macro-cancer monkeys that we are with gallows fascination.

This is the same thing comedian George Carlin bragged about doing to find peace in his later years, BTW.

When you remove trying to root for us to be not horrible, we are a spectacular and peculiar thing to behold, a remarkable evolutionary oddity, like Pandas. Like how are we the apex predator?! It's nuts and hilarious.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I see that you've posted a few new things in the last hour or so; hope this means you're feeling a little better about things.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I'm fine, just needed to vent my deep down feelings. Thank you.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Nothing like shrews and coffee to get your mind off things πŸ˜‰πŸ‘

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 hours ago

I'd say you have issues that have little to do with the news. Talk to a counselor.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

πŸ™Please don't say that.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Thank you for giving a shit about me. ❀️

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago

Hugs for you, buddy. <3 the world's better with you in it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago

If you ever feel very down, make sure to channel your hatred of the world back out at the world, rather than inwards at yourself. Maybe you'll help make it a bit better <3

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago

Start skateboarding πŸ›Ή, it helps.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

Have to focus on what's around you that you have control over.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

Who are you referring to as "the whole world", specifically? People on Lemmy? Leftists? Your friends IRL?

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