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Am I projecting? What do you think, fellow lemmings?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 36 minutes ago

Climate change is getting worse and the world in general is sliding into fascism. The odds of things getting better in our lifetimes is very low. I'm only happy when I'm focusing on what's around me and not the big picture, because the big picture is bleak.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 minutes ago

It is and if you can't see it it's because you are being dragged down too.

I'm going to remark something nobody seem to be focusing on. Humans didn't evolve 1 million years to eat processed food and be around artificial everything.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 29 minutes ago

All honesty, I tend to be optimistic to a fault and try really hard to be cheerful.

Everything starts to crack once socioeconomics comes up. The news lately is all about how everything is about to get worse. "This is collapsing, that's more expensive, getting a slice of diminishing wages is going to be even harder now! They're cracking down here and forcing ads there." Etc etc.

When I'm knee-deep in fixing up my servers or making art or being with my people, everything is just peachy!

But yeah, "How next money tho?" Usually starts the mental downward spiral.

I love living, can do a ton of things, love learning, but I don't get along with churning out a repetitive task for increasingly worthless currency.

The world outside of what I'm choosing to do feels entirely impossibly out of our control. So I try to balance being informed with staying sane.

Like damn I don't need much, can't folk just be left alone? Lol

Wonder if a lot of people feel like I do?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Everyone seems to be doomscrolling

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Seems like mostly just people in the west because western world order is now visibly collapsing.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 38 minutes ago (1 children)

America is not the Western world.

It does, however, control a lot of the Western World's media, and there's a clear agenda to make people frightened.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 34 minutes ago

The US is at the centre of western world order. The rest of the west is tied to the states ideologically, politically, economically, and militarily. The global hegemony that the US created in the 90s is now starting to unravel and that's having a negative economic impact on all western countries. Europe in particular has been hit very hard. And hence we're seeing political discontent running all across the west.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Who are you referring to as "the whole world", specifically? People on Lemmy? Leftists? Your friends IRL?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (6 children)

I'm just waiting to die at this point. Fuck this life. Fuck this world. I'd kill myself if I wasn't such a pussy. I keep living with the vague hope that things might get better, but deep down I already know it won't.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 hour ago

I'd say you have issues that have little to do with the news. Talk to a counselor.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 49 minutes ago (1 children)

I see that you've posted a few new things in the last hour or so; hope this means you're feeling a little better about things.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 45 minutes ago (1 children)

I'm fine, just needed to vent my deep down feelings. Thank you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 42 minutes ago* (last edited 41 minutes ago)

Nothing like shrews and coffee to get your mind off things 😉👍

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

If you ever feel very down, make sure to channel your hatred of the world back out at the world, rather than inwards at yourself. Maybe you'll help make it a bit better <3

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

Have to focus on what's around you that you have control over.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

Start skateboarding 🛹, it helps.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

🙏Please don't say that.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Thank you for giving a shit about me. ❤️

[–] [email protected] 1 points 36 minutes ago

Hugs for you, buddy. <3 the world's better with you in it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

👍I envy you and applaud you at the same time (being serious here, not snarking).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Thank you. I found that if I don't doomscroll and just look up subjects I like.. Then easier to be on good mood.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

If I may, Arts & Letters Daily has a lot of interesting links that generally aren't too overly tied to current events, and can provide a nice break from the world as usual. Aeon is also good.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 minutes ago

I'll check that out. Thank you!!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 hour ago

sound's like a western leftist problem for me

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago

You can find people in a good mood, but not on Lemmy :P

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago

Been outside or watched the news lately. What’s there to be in a good mood about?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 hours ago

Idk, some leftist people (including minorities) are energized and motivated, so it’s important not to get stuck in some weird self-defeating trap. Political up and downs happen every generation. Don’t fall for the doomer BS, it’s important to keep following through with your personal goals and persevere. Find a community and volunteer, take care of each other.

Ultimately people should seek to close gaps with others, and try to find common ground, while acknowledging that there are some values which cannot be compromised, like sacrificing someone’s humanity and (personal/psychological) safety.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I mean, our new Dear Leader’s best oligarch buddy threw two very unambiguous Nazi salutes inside of five seconds during a nationally televised speech, and the vast majority of our media establishment is simply bending over backwards to give him the benefit of the doubt over his “awkward hand motion”. So yeah I’m in a bad fucking mood, because this shit is going to become de rigueur.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 hour ago

His salute does not affect your life in any meaningful way unless you let it do so.

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