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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name

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Some of the many species Jeffrey Combs has evolved into:

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago (2 children)

For someone who gives this much of a shit about gender roles, you'd think they'd learn the correct forms of the word for an intended spouse.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago

Most people don't give a shit about the gendered spelling differences in loan words

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago

He's just copy/pasting what the listener wrote and doesn't realize the connotation?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

Do you think Matt brain would blue screen if I told him I took my wife's last name?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

Everyone has funny or unique stories about last names... Some people change their names for love, others keep them for work, and some even mix them up for fun. It’s like having many characters in one story, just like Jeffrey Combs does in acting—each name choice has its special vibe

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 days ago

Well it'll be easier for scammers since she didn't change her last name

[–] [email protected] -1 points 6 days ago

The government wants your money and to waste time.

[–] [email protected] 160 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Women, don't marry men who won't take your name. That's a wall of separation he wants to keep between you. It won't be the only one.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I took my wife's name when we got married. I hate my family and intended to change my last name anyway. Her family is awesome. It was an easy choice.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago

I plan on doing the same. My dad Americanized my family's last name, and because my girlfriend is the same ethnicity as him, I plan on taking her name to undo the damage and go back to my roots.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 week ago

And don't marry a man who insists you take his. That's a wall of control he's building around you and he won't stop until he's separated you from everyone and everything you love. Marry the man who accepts it's your choice to decide, along with every other decision about yourself.

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[–] [email protected] 89 points 1 week ago (4 children)

There are lots of reasons for women to keep their maiden name. In the case of my wife, she had two good ones:

  1. She didn't want to become disassociated from her scientific publications.

  2. She didn't want to complicate or redo any immigration paperwork.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Also some names just sound better. And some names go better than others with some surnames

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's heart warming to see Jeffrey Combs is an incredible actor with good taste in the company he keeps. It's exciting seeing him vocally shouting down the fascists.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I read the comment in his slimy “Brunt- FCA” tone the way he addresses Quark. I loved him already but seeing this just makes him so much more respectable and admirable.

Heartwarming is a lovely way to put it.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 week ago (8 children)

My fiance and I are considering creating a brand new last name that we both take.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Hot tip, change HIS last name prior to the wedding and she gets the name change free.

I know a couple that waited until after the wedding to do that and the husband changed his name, then the wife was given the option of keeping her old name, or switch to his old name.

She ended up having to go through the entire name change process without the benefit of the auto-name flip from the marriage.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago

I think it’s safe to say that Walsh knows a lot about women maintaining “walls of separation”. Maybe even restraining orders.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 week ago (9 children)

It's fiancée. Fiancé is male.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago

Today I Learned! I had no idea there was a difference. Apparently they are pronounced the same, it's only a written difference.

But it seems like in English fiancé is becoming a gender neutral term

Dictionary.com — Fiancé vs Fiancée

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 week ago (3 children)

You don't expect Herbert West: Reanimator to be the voice of reason... yet here we are

What a funky timeline

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I actually had the pleasure of working with him on a motion comic project once (which sadly never got finished) and this is 100% him. He's a very cool guy in person and this is exactly the sort of thing I would have expected him to say, although maybe not directly to Matt Walsh.

He's also a massive Radiohead fan. I'm not, so I mostly just sat there and listened when he gushed about them at lunch after hearing them on the radio in my car. Thankfully, the other people with us knew more about Radiohead than I did.

He also said one of the funniest things I've heard a pro like him say in a work setting, talking about a movie role he was offered: "I'll do it for $1000, but not if the script is shit."

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Yet another conservative weakchin hiding behind a beard.

They're certainly going for a look right now.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Who cares what name anyone uses .... my wife and I never got married and she's always had her name and we never bothered changing a thing because we never cared. No one cares ... not even the government.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

my wife and I never got married

I'm assuming you mean you never had a ceremony?

Aren't you automatically married by common law in Canada after a certain number of years? I seem to remember that was the case with my uncle and his wife. But he eventually had to marry her because she's German and she couldn't get a long-term visa so he could work in the states when he was allowed to return. He dodged the Vietnam war draft. When Clinton allowed people like him to return, he got a job at the Library of Congress. Quite ironic.

Meanwhile, she continued to get paid for Canadian work because she was a professor at the (at the time) by-mail only Athabasca University.

If Uncle Sam was expecting them to stick around, they didn't. They moved back to Saskatoon after he retired. Canada treated him very well. He happened to be pursuing a folklore degree right at the time the Canadian government realized they needed folklorists to help preserve various cultures within their borders.

Sorry for rambling. I need more sleep apparently.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Yes ... that's why I say the government doesn't care ... after a couple have been together for a few years, they are more or less considered married, legally speaking. We thought of a ceremony for a while ... then waited for so long that we just never think of it any more.

I know some same sex couples that have been together for over 30 years up here, they got together years ago as 'friends living together' when the attitudes of same sex couples were still frowned upon. Now after all that time, they are more or less married couples and file their taxes just like every other married couple. When it comes to finances and taxation, governments and economics really don't care about sexuality or sexual orientation, as long as you pay your taxes.

I also know of a friend of a friend from the sixties who lived up north near Timmins who received US draft dodgers during the 70s. A couple of young professionals who eventually became high school teachers and college professors and ended up just living up here all their lives. They did a lot for people and gave a lot of their energy and expertise to people up here ... also excellent folk musicians and artists ... all because of some dumb war they were avoiding. There was some good that came out of those dumb wars the US was forcing their young people to die in for no reason.

Don't worry about rambling ... I always enjoy hearing from you.

Get more sleep ... never apologize for being a Ramblin' Man. Stay well my friend.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)

My wife went double-barreled after I specifically told her I didn't care if she changed, kept, or anything in between. I didn't want to change my name, so why should she have to?

Twenty years next summer.

Edit: "double-barreled" just means hyphenated.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago (7 children)

There are tons of reasons why one might not want to change their name. At a minimum you have to send a form to the state, update any licenses you have, contact your banks, your insurance, your place of work... Best case scenario it's an annoying hassle to deal with.

Was I appreciative when my wife took my name? Sure. But that's mostly because we also share the same first name so it's hilarious to share the same last name. But I told her many times before we got married she didn't need to do it. I never expected that out of her.

If having a matching name is a big deal with you, then you can change your name.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago

You can't expect a regressive to understand evolution. They are going backward faster than the rest of us are moving forward.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I prefer the old ways. Steve son of Bill 5th generation Help Desk support.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I read this in Shrans voice.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago

It probably even works in Brunt's voice, because Ferengi are more progressive than Matt Walsh.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Marrying Jeffery Combs is like marrying 300 men at the same time, though. Every day he can just act like a different alien.

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