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[–] [email protected] 102 points 3 weeks ago

Similar energy

[–] [email protected] 90 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

There are two wolves inside you.jpg

[–] [email protected] 53 points 3 weeks ago

the furry convention is going well

[–] [email protected] 34 points 3 weeks ago

George_Takei_-_Ohh_my.gif

[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 weeks ago

I mean with enough lube I suppose anything is possible

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

Aww hell yeah.

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[–] [email protected] 78 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Fun fact: one of (if not the) oldest known piece of human figurative art is carving of a person with the head of a lion. AKA a furry.

Imagining furries is more innate to the human condition than farming.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I want that gif without the caption

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago

"owo what's this?" - Caveman to his son, named owo.

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[–] [email protected] 58 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (14 children)

I've never understood the furry hate. People treat it as a kink akin to someone being into taking a shit on your stomach. Except somehow worse.

It's not my thing, but I've known people who are into it and they've all been nice people. I hung out with a bunch of them one of the times I was working at a con and they were fun people to hang around when they were out of their fursuits. And yeah, I didn't quite know how to react to them when they were in the fursuit, but I just stayed friendly. That seemed to be fine with them.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Furries are odd fellows, but I would never say anything against them ~~for fear of all IT infrastructure spontaneously trying to kill for the rest of my life~~ because it's just odd, not harmful. De gustibus non disputandum est.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Right. They're just into something weird. No big deal, lots of us are into weird things. The weird stuff I'm into doesn't involve spending lots of money or wearing a costume that must be very hot after a short period of time, but if that's what does it for you, cool. I'll be over here watching hours of old public domain movies and industrial films.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

One of the most consistent themes with furries I have noticed is unapologetic sex positivity.

That burns a lot of folks who insist sex is shameful and something to apologize for.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

There's a loud subculture of furries who insist sex is shameful and something to apologize for.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Huh... I've been here a smidge under 20 years, and I've never met a fur who shares that sentiment. Awkward and quiet about it, sure, but nobody who is like "bad grrrr gross grrrr". Almost exclusively in my circles it's on the range of "I don't mind at all, be weird with me" to (where I sit) "literally get freaky with me whenever and however, here are my kinks on f-list with all my sona details, also here is my 4K webcam and we can become content creators if you want too" levels of casual/open/positivity.

'we are here for a good time, not a long time'. So, literally, fuck it. Do what/who makes you feel good.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

It's a proxy for queerphobia.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It certainly feels that way sometimes. "I can't say the other F-word, so I'll call you a furry."

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

phobia of neurodivergent people as well, I think. A lot of the things people find weird and offputting are just like... autism or something.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (38 children)

I don't think anyone doubts furries are nice people. The issue is the perceived degeneracy. Most people assume, from media mostly, that furries are fulfilling a sexual component of their lives when they become their fursona. This is reinforced by niche furry sexual fetish art and memes online that get signal boosted either by the creator themselves or by trolls trying to generate more furry hate. That juxtaposition of (again, perceived by normies) sexuality with what appears to be child friendly mascot play, makes people super uncomfortable. That, and the off-brand fursuits and people somehow identifying with a blue fox with anime eyes is pretty different and people hate different.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Yes, and people perceive homosexuality as degeneracy too. It applies to both. Homosexuality is also not about sex. You can never have sex your entire life and be gay.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, I can see that. The weird thing is, why the fuck are others giving a shit about what the fuck I do? It turns the conversation on its head when you ask what they are into.

I'm a fur for the happy cuddly sfw stuff, but I also want to bury my knot in an adorable subby boy too. I went all-in on both halves of the fandom basically as soon as I found out about it, and I've never been apologetic or put up with any shaming. And there's nobody who would pass up the opportunity to double their penis length and girth, grow a thick knot, have badass razor-sharp teeth, jaw muscles to go with it, can hunt and defend themselves without any outside object assisting them, and also have the aura that comes with it, just walk in the room and the mood immediately shifts. At least, no top/dom. I'm sure bottoms/subs are out there that want to feel helpless and vulnerable. But subs aren't the people that are being little bitches about what I do in my bedroom.

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I know exactly how to feel about this...

Those are some quality fursuits, mfer must be hecking rich

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Everything for the cuddliness!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I'll take Uppies for ~$6,000 please.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 32 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (17 children)

As someone who hangs out with a lot of furries, and also only ever gets furries as art customers:

Yes, I understand the discomfort around furries. I can blame people for going out of their way to troll furries, but I can't blame people to want nothing to do with furries.

The furry fandom is by and large filled with people who have massive insecurities. This doesn't count for everyone, but you're more likely to find an emotionally unstable furry than not. It's the ultimate escapism; where people with personal issues create a character with none of those personal issues, and pretend to be said character in an environment where consequences don't exist. It is not for nothing there is such a massive amount (compared to Earth's overall average) of gay, bi, and trans people in the fandom.

Yes, it's also a sex thing. I've seen someone in the comments say "sex positive", but I wouldn't call it that. The furry fandom is a place where a gay or a bisexual person can express their sexuality without persecution, like often happens in places like the United States or Poland, but... It's not really sex positivity, rather it's debauchery. So much debauchery. Which harkens back to escaping into the ideal world without consequences; you can have copious amount of sex and/or sexualise as much as you want without any of the usual responsibilities or consequences that comes with sex.

It is fun to occasionally partake in such debauchery. I'm no prude and I'm not afraid to admit I'm also a bit of a horny guy. So partaking in the occasional kinky, sexy fiction can be fun. Except for a furry it isn't really fiction, which is where a lot of weirdness and unease comes from. And for those who can afford going to conventions or meetups regularly, this level of debauchery occasionally happens in real life... With real life consequences.

A furry lives in a fictional comfort zone where they can pretend to be a character in a world without consequences. But even in exclusively online communities real life tends to catch up with people, so members inside of communities will get pushed outside of this comfort bubble and be reminded about reality. This is the cause for a lot of infamous furry drama.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

It is fun to occasionally partake in such debauchery. I’m no prude and I’m not afraid to admit I’m also a bit of a horny guy. So partaking in the occasional kinky, sexy fiction can be fun. Except for a furry it isn’t really fiction, which is where a lot of weirdness and unease comes from.

I'm a furry and I'm unsure what you mean by this

members inside of communities will get pushed outside of this comfort bubble and be reminded about reality. This is the cause for a lot of infamous furry drama.

and I'm really not sure what you're talking about here

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 weeks ago

Those fursuiters are so cute!

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

listen, it's true, since the beginning of human history anthropomorphic creatures have existed in the human lore.

Now we just need to find a way to convince future historians that furries were some sort of high class god like figures, and our troll will be complete.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

While we're trolling future historians, let's rewrite the history books to say that the Great Depression was just a period where everyone was really sad for some reason. It was a mental health epidemic, not an economic crisis.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

those are damn impressive costumes tho

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Except one wears a dirty and stinky pelt of a real animal and the other is cuddly and cute <3

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

Also fursuits are made of synthetic materials, it's vegan

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I think we need to live sexually, morally, and politically repressed like in the good ol' times. It made it easier to control and indoctrinate people during the growth of empires designed to serve themselves and their pyramid scheme like structures. It's why we burned the satyr plays. I'm just going to say it, if we are going to shift as a subservient and servile class under our billionaire oligarchs, we need to be twice as repressed as we are now, not more "liberated". Who made the best servants? Eunuchs, that's who. Also, please make more babies, we need to feed the feedback loop we have going regarding population growth and our economy/wars. /swtf

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