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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

A while ago, I had A LOT of free time to shitpost on social media, and I was beginning to miss it.

I don't have as much time anymore. 😭

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

I'm sorry for your loss.

Claw that free time back.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

If you're paid to do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life.

Commendable

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I won't have what I love tainted by employer/customer expectations.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Recovering from cancer, no job, no friends, too much time.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Congratulations on the first mark! That's great to hear.

How much longer in your recovery regimen?

Are you pretty active again?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Thank you so much! I just got news last week that I’m in full remission (although still incurable because myeloma) and my blood tests are β€œpristine”. Still suffering from extreme post-chemo fatigue, both mental and physical. It is what it is, better than the alternative.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Slow days at the office, but not slow enough to comfortably get into a game. I go home and do the same thing because I'm too tired to do anything else after pretending to be busy for 8 hours.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

I'm pretty sure I died in 2008 and just haven't cooled yet.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago

The best XKCD

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

my job doesn't pay me enough to care about it for the entire time i'm working

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Nice, here's to hoping you can whittle down the few hours you are not on Lemmy even further.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I have a bad habit of leaving comments when I want to leave none ever. So comments >0 is too many by my own reckoning. I have the free time because depression. I make these comments because I've lost my self control in that respect

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I seem to compulsively leave comments as well, I think they help give body to the community.

Its good Lemmy work

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That's a good way to look at it lol, I'm contributing to the Lemmy fluff. Someone will read it and eat 5 seconds of their time, thus contributing to the goal of Lemmy; wasting time

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Wating time Learning!

Constant cultural and empathetic expansion!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

Post on company time πŸ˜‰

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

What else am I supposed to do at work?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I quit work when I was 35 and am now 58 (FIRE long before it became a thing and I didn't even consider grifting off the life choice) . I dont consider myself prolific but I have time to post if I wish.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

That is fire. Congrats.

Why grift after you already have what you need after all?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I love seeing familiar faces. It’s like talking to your neighbors. I feel it’s an investment. :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

I share your sentiment. I feel optimistically productive while posting, at least some of the time

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

I check in throughout the day and scroll a little when I get in-between sorts of moments, also watching for notifications. It's still just fitting into my regular day though, a couple minutes here, a couple minutes there.

It's actually a lot better than reddit for that, since there isn't as much activity, so I seldom get sucked deeply in like you can with something with endless content.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

I work from home.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

My job mostly entails me working in a ticketing system all day. When I'm all caught up and there's no backlog of tickets, I usually kill time hanging out here while I wait for more to come in.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I've been on summer break since May. Started back Monday and I'm very very angry with our new 'leadership' team, so I spend every possible minute browsing my phone. My other activity is deciding on the words I'll say and what song will play as i drop a match behind me on my way out.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

"Oh, I forgot..."

drops match

Cue "It's getting boring by the sea" by blood red shoes.

That's a good continual conundrum.

Happy judgments to you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I don't get how people can comment way too much. I barely comment or post anything not just on Lemmy but on every platform.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

It's definitely just time for me.

I sit around chilling out and if I get a message I might as well answer it because who knows, maybe I'll learn something, or what they're saying will be interesting

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

They don't pay me enough at my job so I gotta find something to do while they aren't paying me enough to do my job.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Noble.

Sincerely.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

The key isn't in having too much time, it's having no thought going into my comment that i can rapid fire into the crowd.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Other than some jerks that I've blocked, being on here reminds me of the old / early days of reddit...before it became Spez's money mill. I find Lemmy to be fairly informative and entertaining. We have a long way to go before becoming a substantial archive of knowledge, but it's kind of exciting to see it slowly grow.

As for having free time: I browse Lemmy while watching baseball games and during various points of down-time throughout the day / week.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I agree about Lemmy feeling like the early days of Reddit, I'm much more meaningfully engaged here than most of my time on reddit.

I feel like I'm actually talking to people here.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I clean fast food places as my job and it doesn't take more than a few seconds to see a meme and make a joke about it when I am waiting on a bucket to fill or while on lunch/a break even when I am actually at work. Shit, I can post with one hand while taking out the garbage.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

I don't post a lot but I have a lot of free time due to being T-boned on my motorcycle from someone running a red light. My mobility has been seriously restricted since. When I was working full time and posting a lot on Reddit I was training corporate engineering sw. When I wasn't training I had a lot of time on my hands at work so I'd scroll reddit. I was also traveling a lot so I was away from home and reddit was sort of my travel family

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Nice to have a community to be a part of, for sure.

Sorry to hear about the asshole hitting you, I hope physical rehab goes well and you regain maximum mobility allowed.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The Dr said my foot was squished like stepping on a grape and you can't put the grape back together again. But I'm so thankful to have a foot and leg at all after that so I appreciate what I have not what I don't have, even though it does get burdensome when pain or lack of movement is high

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I'm very happy for you and your very healthy perspective, my best to your grape-foot.

A grapefoot is still a great foot.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

The long, frantic hours of waiting for someone to respond. Always extremely frustrating.

Best of luck on the job hunt

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I have a very irregular work schedule, resulting in a lot of free time punctuated by periods of intense crunch. It's not unusual for me to have a few weeks at a time just empty of work.

I post my hobby/sidegig tabletop commission projects, since I'd have been working on them even without Lemmy. Then since in real life I come across many odd things in my traveling, I'll make sure to snap some photos.

Then I just have a daily habit of browsing certain sites and feeds related to various Lemmy communities and linking to Lemmy whatever catches my eye.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Thoracic spinal damage is super rare. The thoracic region is the area where your ribs connect. It isn't like the lumbar spine you likely associate with back problems. It usually requires external sources of traumatic injury to cause problems. Unlike typical back problems, thoracic damage can greatly impact posture; not just in the sense of 'hold your shoulders back and don't slouch' bad posture. This is more like, what you associate with bad posture is somewhat related to fatigue, but you're likely unaware of how much continuous strength you actually have that underpins your ability to remain upright. These muscles are still engaged even when you are reclining above around a 45Β° angle, just to a lesser extent, and certainly in use while sitting upright or standing. When the thoracic spinal region is chronically damaged, holding posture above 45Β° can become like lifting a 1 kg dumbbell in your outstretched arm at shoulder height. I can hold posture and situp or stand, but it hurts from the moment I start. By 30 minutes it is painful enough for me to lose the focus to read and comprehend well. By 1 hour in, I'm unable to think clearly over the background noise of the pain. Taking pain meds and muscle relaxers doesn't change anything about my condition. It just makes me care less or less self aware. I am here most often because there is a position I can sit in that allows me to fully relax my back while holding a phone. I spend my up time doing other things, I can sit with my computer in bed longer or hold up a novel size book okay. This is a profoundly lonely existence to deal with long term. I'm often hurting too much to really talk anyways. I need the filter of text to piece my thoughts together and feel like I am myself. In a lot of ways I let this place fill a fundamental social need. I don't expect people to understand. I simply have no access to escape this situation and be myself.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I honestly expected more answers to be like this.

Glad you're here and glad there's a position you can find some relief and still get some solid community/social engagement and dumb memes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I don't think I comment way too much, but probably sometimes it's too much. Those times it's because online existence is a form of escapism, and sometimes that's useful escapism that helps me to survive, and sometimes it's maladaptive escapism. Often it's both.

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