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How to avoid being a target of a psychopath (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I genuinely feel like no matter what I do, psychopaths can always pretty much immediately defect me as the perfect victim.

I think it's partly because I'm ugly, partly because I'm sensitive, and they can just tell I'm a weak person.

It's making my life a living hell, no matter how hard I try I just can't blend it, I can't force myself to act a certain way, it's exhausting to me

Help..

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Thank you for the response! Honestly most of the people that bully me psychopathically either don't know me or we are colleagues and barely speak and aren't on close terms.

Currently it's my apartment neighbours. They have devoted their life to bothering me.

For example when I take a shower they will imitate me and run water after. My dog barks literally 1 time a day tops and they will randomly make dog barking nosies throughout the day to imitate it. Same with my cats.

They will spend hours around my car pretending to be "taking the kids out" when really they're only there to torment me (there are 4000 other places they could be but always choose my car in specific)

Any time I make the smallest noise like if I laugh once they will stomp right after.

This ONE TIME I turned a vacuum on 10 mins before afternoon quiet hours ended (2-4pm, so I turned it on at 3:50pm to vacuum something that spilled quickly, cause I was in a hurry to leave with my mom) and the next morning they were sure to make loud slamming noises and wake me up just before 8am (quiet hour ends).

See when this stuff happens once or twice you don't think much of it but when it happens ever single time you start making the connection and realizing how fucking psychotic they really are

They even get their friends to hang out around my car cause they know it bothers me

There are no laws against this, property manager is useless.. theres literally nothing I can do