jlyndby

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I tried that but they always find a way to turn everyone against me. They hate my guts

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

Idk. Like, interpersonal psychopaths don't scare me as much cause I can always just ghost them for the most part.

My issue is with workplace ones (cause it's hard to find a good job) and also with the ones in my apartment complex. There's no effing way it can be dealt with I'm just screwed.

 

I genuinely feel like no matter what I do, psychopaths can always pretty much immediately defect me as the perfect victim.

I think it's partly because I'm ugly, partly because I'm sensitive, and they can just tell I'm a weak person.

It's making my life a living hell, no matter how hard I try I just can't blend it, I can't force myself to act a certain way, it's exhausting to me

Help..

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I'm scared and idk what colour would work.. maybe like a very dark blue accent wall for the bedroom?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I want to but il have to set one up in every room idek how that would work

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (4 children)

There's tons of stuff it still gives me anxiety it's wide and open and white

 

If an apartment has high ceilings and big rooms it gives me anxiety. I'm not sure if it's because I tie it to traumatic experiences of what.

In my big apartment that I rented I felt awful and had anxiety. It also has light colours everywhere.

The little one felt cozier and had darker colours.

Has anyone had a similar experience? I don't know what to do cause I'm stuck in the bigger one until the lease is up

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Thought there were always jokes about it

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

They are strangers 😭

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Wdym by uncalled for? Like.. idk I can't control how I feel 😭

Plus since so many people flopped maybe they really aren't ok with helping

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's not because I'm scared of them I don't think.. it's more so I just feel uncomfortable about the fact they're doing something for me

 

I've been in a few situations where I need substantial help from strangers, and some have offered to help (most haven't followed through) but I just can't do it.

For example someone offered to help me move and I just feel super uncomfortable about it to the point where I'd rather risk something bad happening to me. Like I feel super awkward and uncomfortable accepting huge favours from strangers

Someone even offered a place to stay for me with my pets but I can't accept it cause I feel way too awkward and like I owe them or something, like I have a huge fear and anxiety about it

Like I just feel like a disgusting parasite wasting their time and energy and it's also humiliating

Is that normal?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Careful with the couch my cats almost ruined mine lol. I added a cover on it and it helped a lot. It's mostly because they use it to jump when chasing each other so it gets scratched.

Which attachment do you use for the couch btw?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I hope they last okay. They are currently on promo for like 250-300 euros here.

Have you ever used a similar design vacuum before, except maybe one without a bag? Did you find this one harder to maneuver?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I forgot to ask, do you have pets? and how often do you need to use a new bag? I live in a 2 bedroom apartment but one of the rooms isn't really used

 

Hello, I got a comment on my previous post recommending I post it here as well.

I had the Philips one but after about a year it's suction changed to the point where it's hard for it to pick up cat litter now..

It must be able to deal with a lot of cat hair and litter.. and preferably be under 500 euros.

Of course I think a corded one is better for my purposes, and I have mostly hard floors with a few small rugs.

The problem is that every year the quality decreases, so it becomes difficult to know which vacuums will still be good. For example, someone may have purchased the same vacuum 5 years ago and think it's great but the one sold today might not compare

 

I had the Philips one but after about a year it's suction changed to the point where it's hard for it to pick up cat litter now..

It must be able to deal with a lot of cat hair and litter.. and preferably be under 500 euros.

Of course I think a corded one is better for my purposes, and I have mostly hard floors with a few small rugs.

The problem is that every year the quality decreases, so it becomes difficult to know which vacuums will still be good. For example, someone may have purchased the same vacuum 5 years ago and think it's great but the one sold today might not compare

 

Not a troll post. Why is everything shit?

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