Is there some trick that can request grub not to install?
That really depends on your distro's installer, so there's no simple answer to your question. If you're using Arch for instance, you have complete control over that process. For other distros, you'll need to do your homework.
In saying that, one option could be to do a manual partition restore - like install your distro inside a VM (but don't reboot after the install, just shutdown the VM), and then clone the partition from the VHD to your real drive. After that you can just create an entry in rEFInd. But that's more effort than simply just changing the default bootloader.
Why though? Mobiles can word-wrap just fine, you don't need to manually do it.