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[–] [email protected] 85 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh that's that new "x"?! Tell me about it?!

Be excited people are joining your hobbies. Without people hobbies die.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

The best we can hope for is for them to not increase as fast as they have

That's what inflation going down means. Inflation is the rate in which prices increase. Saying "inflation going down" means that the rate prices increase is not as much. "Inflation going down" still means prices are increasing. People are confusing "inflation going down" with deflation, which means prices are decreasing.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago

This is a private individual who is suing valve for her own personal gain. This isn't a government or a class action. If they win valve gives this one lady half a billion dollars. Sounds bullshit to me.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 7 months ago (5 children)

50% of what Thanos considers life since it was powered by his will. Since he seemed to imply that nature (plants and animals) where not part of this it's safe to assume it was sapient life only.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago

It's an allegory for the civil rights movement with prof. X as MLK Jr and Magneto as Malcolm X. In proper allegorical fashion this means it can be representative for any form of civil resistance by a repressed class, including the fight for gay rights.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

https://www.meche.engineering.cmu.edu/_files/images/research-groups/whitefoot-group/WS-FootprintFuelEconomy-EP.pdf?shem=sswnst

https://me.engin.umich.edu/news-events/news/cafe-standards-could-mean-bigger-cars-not-smaller-ones/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corporate_average_fuel_economy

https://www.thetruthaboutcars.com/2012/10/how-cafe-killed-compact-trucks-and-station-wagons/?shem=sswnst

https://www.transportpolicy.net/standard/us-light-duty-fuel-economy-and-ghg/

The footprint-based system means that selling more small vehicles does not necessarily help manufacturers meet the standards. Smaller vehicles are subject to more stringent requirements, such that a manufacturer of smaller vehicles has a lower CO2 standard while a manufacturer of larger vehicles has a higher CO2 standard. Footprint systems encourage improvements in efficiency, regardless of vehicles size, and have relatively little impact on vehicle size mix. Unlike a weight-based standard, a footprint-based standard encourages use of lightweight materials while maintaining the vehicle size, without subjecting the manufacturers to a higher CO2 requirement.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Because car companies send lobbyists to Congress and pay to influence bills.

[–] [email protected] 91 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (26 children)

There is a law in the US that says trucks must meet a certain Miles per gallon fuel economy. But there is a loop hole that says trucks over a certain size are not included in that law. So as long as the trucks are ridiculously big they don't need to worry about their fuel economy.

Edit: it's the CAFE law.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

She never did it unguided. And the way the therapist did it was different than what I've seen online. She would lay down and the therapist had her hold two paddles. One in each hand. The paddles would vibrate or lightly shock her, alternating between left and right. She did this while she was reliving old traumatic moments from her childhood. It was supposed to help process the information differently or something along those lines.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

For my wife it was mainly a good therapist she saw weekly. I think what helped her improve that most was a form of radical acceptance .

  • Intrusive thoughts don't define me
  • Intrusive thoughts do not last forever
  • I'm not alone

Or something like:

  • I am not my thoughts. They are not my authentic self.
  • I am just an observer of my thoughts. I simply watch as they pass through.

Often the reaction to the thoughts is what gives intrusive thoughts power. Accepting the thoughts for what they are takes the power from them. This is hard since often intrusive thoughts are ingrained into your most moral values, so to take that power is difficult.

One thing she had me do at the start of her therapy was to ask her a question when ever she had an intrusive thought: what if? What if you killed that person? What if you said that racial slur? For her it would be the end of the world, bringing it into reality would often ground the thoughts. For the driving example, "What if I hit a child?"

Well, then there would be a loud thump. We would get out and check on the child. We would call for help while we did what we could. We would probably go to the hospital. The cops would try and determine if it was accidental or not. You might be in jail. You might not. That is out of our hands.

Just follow the thoughts to the logical conclusion. That aspect of her work stopped shortly after we started, though.

She also did some trauma therapy. OCD can be rooted in childhood trauma. My wife had a sister with bi-polar, and owho ften got violent. Her parents wouldn't speak to the kids about it. So my wife's childhood was filled with this constant unacknowledged stress and tension, because she knew something was wrong but everyone pretended it was all okay. Coupled with her autistic hyper empathy, this sent her into a anxiety driven downward spiral.

Another thing she said that helped was EMDR. It's sort of a pseudoscience but my wife swears it helped a ton. So, anicdotal but worth a shot.

Anyways, thats all I can think of. I would recommend trying to find a therapist who specializes in neurodivergent people and go from there.

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