Perhapsjustsniffit

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Here's a hot take. Do what you want when you are young. Find a way. I spent my 20's moving around, having shitty but fun jobs. I travelled. Saw all kinds of places and met all sorts of people. It wasn't easy and sometimes it wasn't fun. I found myself homeless even several times. I still wouldn't change any of it. I found a wonderful partner and we moved together for a while before settling and having kids.

In my early 40s I was diagnosed with a really rare cancer that paralyzed me from the chest down for a year prior to surgery and left lasting disabilities following. Now in my 50's with declining health I am so glad I lived. It means I don't have a lot of things others have but I've never cared much for the Jones' anyway. If Cancer taught me anything it's fuck society and their expectations. Do you. Find a way. Be happy.

[–] [email protected] -5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Fine. When you're poor and having a hard time with food the last thing you need is a couple of hundred dollar gadget so you can cook. Healthier in an air fryer than any oven or stove top...not likely.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

We are in Canada. I scratch cook everything and we grow the vast majority of our own food. Most grocery shopping is staple stuff like flour and sugar. Our grocery bill has trippled in the past 2 years and it's still rising. Our gardens have gotten considerably bigger to make up for it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (4 children)

You don't need the gadget. You can make these things with a normal stove and oven. As someone who cooks a lot someone gave me one of these for xmas. It's a damn convection oven. A tiny one worth way too much money. Learn to use the appliances you have and stop with the useless gadgets.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I signed a DNR when I was diagnosed with cancer. I worked as a Paramedic for a long time. I just choose personally to not go through the huge suffering if things should go bad. I had the surgery but refused the rest knowing problems for someone young having major poisons pumped into their body. I was fortunate and didn't have to use the DNR and surgery seems to have worked well for the time being, aside from some disability.

My family was understanding but I have always been open about my beliefs and desires about major illness and DNR with them. I'd suggest a frank conversation with those you love. Expect that someone won't understand but also know your life is yours and not anyone else's.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Former paramedic here. There is a subsect of patient like this. It's psychiatric. They're admittedly terrible to deal with but they need psyche help as much as they dophysical medical help.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Where we live it will help a lot. It's an economically depressed area and has some of the highest poverty rates in the country. Yet the local university has brought so many international students that housing supply dried up prior to COVID. Housing prices have skyrocketed. Food banks are stretched beyond their capabilities. Employment opportunities are at an all time low with a minimum of quadruple the volume of applicants for the few mostly part time positions there are. The local cinema is being used as a classroom there are so many students and no place to instruct them at the university because it is well over capacity on teaching spaces as well as housing. Yet the university keeps increasing the volume of students every single year by the thousands.

This means the local population which already has difficulty for many reasons is seeing homelessness rise dramatically along with food insecurity, housing prices rising at extreme rates, joblessness at extreme levels even for a historically depressed area. Not to mention a huge increase in crime.

For smaller population centers and those with schools acting as diploma mills, which is happening in many areas here, it will slow down the decline somewhat. It's not an end all situation. Much more still has to be done to even try right the ship.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Someone is gonna bust my balls but whatever. We have an Alienware R8 hooked up to a 20 year old Sony flatscreen tv and an LG sound bar. No fucking about at all.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Ahhh, a fellow stick your dick in crazy enthusiast. Lemmy is starting to have it all.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Or a bowl of ketchup and a spoon with fries on top as garnish.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

Unfortunately not shocking. Just par for the course.

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