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Where did that saying come from?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 19 hours ago

I found out when looking into the term "tomboy" that a "tom" was a term for a boisterous and unruly boy. The word "tom" does come from tomcat as others have said because unneutered tomcats are often loud and unruly. I suspect Peeping Tom has a similar "tom" origin: an unruly boy that peeps on girls.

[–] [email protected] 69 points 1 day ago (3 children)

He was (apocryphal) the only villager that watched Lady Godiva take her ride through town.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 minute ago

Oh shit, that's where the cover for that heaven shall burn album came from!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't know how he even saw anything. I heard she was in a racing car, passing by

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago

Defying the laws of gravity?

[–] [email protected] -3 points 20 hours ago

So the only straight man in the village

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago

That's Tom from MySpace. Everyone got added as his friend so he could peep on anyone he wanted

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Peeping Tom, being Frank, Ruthless, smart Alec. I like to think that each saying started out with a particularly notable person.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I guess like the Goths, the Franks were a barbarian tribe, who were presumably reasonably direct and... frank, compared to sophisticated imperial types.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You jest, but you're not far off.

In Frankish Gaul, only Franks had full freedom, and so "franc" from Old French and "francus" from medieval Latin meant "free", which eventually took on a few more specific meanings, one of which was "speaking freely" (as in "open, honest"). Another meaning is found in the phrase "franking privileges," which refers to politicians being able to send items in the mail without being charged for them - the items are "free" to be delivered.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Aha! I've always wondered why office postage meters are called franking machines.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago

That's exactly it - when a piece of mail with a stamp on it is "canceled" by stamping something on it with ink, yes, that prevents the stamp from being reused, but it is also the sign from the postmaster that the mail may be delivered, having been appropriately paid for.

The cancellation stamp is a franking mark.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Maybe a tomcat?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Tom is a cat that is always peeping on Jerry

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

Jerry is the villain

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 day ago

it came from the term "tomcat", meaning a male cat.