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I was locked outside of the house for long periods of time and had to drink from the garden hose / garden faucet, and pee in the bushes. We also had like 10+ apple trees. It wasn't that bad. A bit boring sometimes.
But that's because it was outside and I could get my needs covered and meet friends.
Locked inside without these needs covered for extended periods is a lot worse in my opinion. Even cats and dogs have those needs covered.
It's also about the lack of freedom when locked inside.
I would not treat my own children like I was treated, and especially not like you were.
Yeah, I just remember it being boring too. I'm also not really a person who can't go a few hours without water, so I never felt I was being neglected.
I dont think I'd lock my kid indoors, but I do admit that when it happened to me after I'd been fighting my siblings or something, it was just treated as a time where I would chill out and read a book to wind down. Once dinner was ready, I'd get called for dinner, and everything seemed normal.
So I'd probably try to create a cool down zone with my kids if I ever have them, maybe a comfy chair they're not allowed to leave for a few hours?
Children (humans) should always have access to clean water. That is not normal in the slightest. A time out shouldn't include torture.
I agree that "people should have access to clean water". Let's not confuse sending a child to their room to wind down when they're throwing a fit with torture.
No one takes harm from lack of water in a mild climate over the course of a couple hours. The reason it's bad to lock a kid in the basement (or any other room) is that you're taking away their freedom (which may be, to some point, justified and correct) and potentially making it harder for them to trust you. However, kids also need to learn that there are limits to how you can behave, and consequences for breaking those limits. Where the limit between "reasonable consequences for teaching children" and "trust-breaking punishment" lies is a fair discussion to have. No need to pull "locking a kid in their room is torture" into it.