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I signed up for an American Express preferred Blue card and got approved for a limit of $25,000. I have a 830 credit score. I realized that the places I shop don't accept that card and you have to pay for it yearly so I canceled it.

Then I decided I was going to get a Costco Visa. Once I signed up the credit limit was only $5,000. So I canceled that one. So I stupidly signed up for a Wells Fargo Visa and that was $4,000.

Don't leave yet and please don't make fun of me but I'm not done being stupid. I decided I wanted a different American Express card and when I signed up for it the credit limit was $2,000 so I canceled that one.

Again I know I'm fucking stupid but how bad did I just fuck up my credit?

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 days ago (6 children)

For what in the hell does anyone use a credit card, like ever?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago

Cash back rewards cards work well, I end up with at least 2% - 5% cash back on all my shopping.

The key is to treat credit cards like cash e.g. pay your bill in full every month, never ever carry a balance. It doesn't work for everyone and that's okay, some people just can't help themselves and get too spendy and end up in debt.

Other nice thing is that fraud is handled better with credit cards, if my card is lost/stolen no one has a direct line to my bank account and can't try to drain my bank balance with debit purchases. Sure your bank may/may not void those transactions but in the time it takes for them to "investigate" you're going to be out real money in your bank account. With a credit card you just dispute those fraud charges and never actually pay for them.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

And building credit is useful to set yourself up for future purchases - a condo/house, car, whatever. The whatever here is bigger than it semese, as having a decent credit score can let you finance all kinds of things at a pretty low rate, if not 0% even today. If you're saving any extra money in an investment/retirement account, and can pay off your 0% financing offers in full by the time you would start to owe interest, financing at 0% is a great deal even if you have the cash on hand to pay outright.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Yeah, I don't necessarily agree with the game, but since we're in it, I play it. All of my purchases go on credit cards. But I never spend money I don't have, and I pay the statement balance in full every month so I'm never charged interest. The only time I don't pay the full statement balance is when I buy a new phone since I have the store card with 0% financing. But anything else, never ever ever carry a balance.

It sucks because it's basically a benefit for people who have good executive functioning and financial literacy, paid for by those who don't. It's a benefit I only get because big banks prey on poor people.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I have A+ credit and have never possessed a credit card.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 days ago

It’s what the guy at the bank told me each time I bought a car or a house.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Literally every purchase. Use it like a debit card and build a good credit report before you’re even 30. Shit my credit score was over 800 before I turned 21. My credit wasn’t very thick. But what I had was solid.

Plus every card I have gives me cash back so it’s like getting 1-5% off every single purchase. Plus since I buy things for work and get reimbursed for it I’m effectively making money off of it.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I’m 44yo with A+ credit and have never used a credit card in my life.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Define “A+”

Credit is about length and girth in addition to their scores. By 40 you’d better have an “A+” score. If you’ve had a mortgage for 20 years, paid your bills on time, and had a couple car loans then anything under 800 would be hard to get.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Sounds like you agree with me that a credit card is not remotely necessary for building good credit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

I never said it was necessary.

But it is one of the fastest and quickest ways to build credit.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

Compared to a debit card, it adds an additional layer between my money and the rest of the world. If my card is wrongly charged, by malice or honest accident, I then have some weeks to sort that out before the money is actually going to be pulled from my bank account. That's why I prefer to pay by credit card instead of by debit card.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

As long as you pay it off every month it should be the way you pay for everything. It builds your credit score and is more secure. With a credit card you're spending their money, so if your card gets stolen you won't be on the hook for everything. Vs a debit card you're spending your money, it is much harder to do fraud from the consumer side with a debit card. Plus perks .

I understand if you're bad with credit, but if you're not, why wouldn't you use one?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Debit cards have all the same functionality as far as I can tell, and you don't need to worry about building up debt at predatory interest rates.