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Their health. I've reached the age where most of my friends have something to say about their health. It becomes a sort of one-upmanship game, where everyone has to top the person who spoke last with their afflictions. What is this, the misery olympics?
Gotta get those W’s wherever you can I guess
Medical topics become more and more important as we age. You never know when you might learn something helpful. "That happens to you too? And did the fix work?"
Hell, you might learn about something that doesn't affect you, but you can pass it on. For example; Dad didn't have hairy legsm but a guy in bootcamp showed him how to put on socks if you do. :)
One upmanship is boorish not matter the topic.
I don't really mind, but don't need the intimate details. People talking about it is better than having it be secret and shameful, and is something going on in the person's life, but say what you need to and move on!
ive recently gotten really into diet and fitness and i admittedly talk about my health stuff alot but not negative stuff. i just spew new stuff i read about or watched/actually applied to my life.
"wow i sleep all day. gee i just woke up and its 4pm i guess i definitely have a disorder or smth, therefore its out of my control so im not gonna do anything about it except leverage it for pity"
a lot of my friends and peers do this shit. like im the weird one for eating like i do, yet im shredded and sleeping ok while yall out here struggling and tired.