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I think part way into your post, you started leaning away from the question but I digress.
I haven't dated in 2 years going 3 but that is simply because there's too much going around me internally and externally to where I simply can't afford a relationship. A relationship is starting to seem like a luxury of its own, in a way of like investing into it. If you don't have anything in order in your life, why should you get into one? Because once you're in a relationship, you are always spending in some form. Spending money or time or both, usually both.
Just try to avoid potential partners that want to date you because you're succeeding in whatever career you pursue, because success can attract moochers and that's something you don't want that'll bring things down. There are some people out there that do find people who're focusing on careers or goals attractive and may want that since they're also doing the same thing. Maybe that's your type.