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My sister got a Bluetooth headset and it reminded me that i cant use those because my ears heat up in less than 10 seconds after putting them on, in fact as i am typing this my ears are kinda of uncomfortably hot. Dust also cause my ears to heat, it usually the cause but it can also happen randomly as well as when i leave the PC monitor running when i sleep(same room).

there is some other stuff i thought to mention but i think it would be better for a post after discovering your body(e.g my cousin though all ppl can only see through one eye until recently because he himself can only see through one eye and that's how he found out he has only one functioning eye)

Also feel free to talk about NSFW stuff and is this post hard to read(sentence structure wise)? Cause i never know if ppl have hard time reading my post, and at the moment i find it hard to read myself

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[–] [email protected] 86 points 3 days ago (8 children)

Synesthesia. I can see sound. Really neat, actually.

Not so neat is my aparent genetic resistance to pain meds and anesthetics. Caused some "fun" in a hospital stay

[–] [email protected] 46 points 3 days ago (3 children)

(Irish ancestry here: Letting them know that you've got redheaded relatives is the secret cheatcode to let you stay unconscious during surgery. There's a whole protocol about it.)

[–] [email protected] 40 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

yup. My dad is irish. And although I'm not a redhead, I later learned that I have the gene and it's one of the factors in this problem.

Too bad I only learned about this fact after I woke up a couple times during surgery and later when they put me into an induced coma and I pulled out my tubes.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 3 days ago (1 children)

TIL that painkillers don't work on redheads.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I also have a super high alcohol tolerance (and I rarely drink), which I think is also an effect of it.

Weed only has an effect for me if I use a lot of it

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Wow, I did not know that. Thanks a bunch.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

OMG. I had a terrible dental experience because of this.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Does red hair run in your family by any chance? People with red hair in their family (myself included, I have auburn-ish hair) need 20% more anesthetics.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

yup. See my other reply

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not so neat is my aparent genetic resistance to pain meds and anesthetics. Caused some "fun" in a hospital stay

Are you a redhead? Apparently that's a fairly common trait for them

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Not quite. See my other replies

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Aphantasia here. Can’t see or remember shit. It sucks.

Only benefits are speed reading and a boost to abstract/scientific thinking. But episodic memories and visualisation sound more fun.

Also resistant to everything. Connective tissue disorder? (EDS)?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Aphantasia here too, do you have an inner monologue? I don't, to the dismay of every therapist and partner I've ever had.

"What are you thinking?"

"There are not words for this."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Nope just multiple streams of unsymbolic thinking usually. When thinking of something specific or planning how to say something I'll consciously subvocalise, but there's no volume/pitch/tone. Having your subconscious talk to you all day sounds exhausting.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I can relate. Here's something you can see though.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Same. I inform doctors that I am resistant to sedation. They nod, not believing me. I go under. I wake up 4 hours early, everyone goes insane. One time they failed to put me out right away. Fortunately they managed to put me out before they cut into me. My last memories before waking are hearing "oh shit, he's awake". Another time they used "an adult dose and a child dose" which... doesn't sound right. But I remember waking with a half dozen people trying to rouse me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

when the surgery team came visiting me afterwards, the anesthesiologist said they used "the elephant's dose"

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

How does “fuck you” look like ?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

funnily enough, as soon as my brain can parse it as language, my synesthesia doesn't trigger anymore. It really is just for sounds and music.

If I listen to a language that I can't understand, my synesthesia triggers. It's a fun example of how the brain processes the information

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

if told "fuck you" in say, Norwegian, what does it look like? (if you speak Norwegian, then substitute it for something you don't speak :P)

also, does "fuck you" look the same in all unknown languages?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It really depends on the sound, not the actual content.

It's quite hard to describe, but for me sounds have a certain color and shape. "Visible" in the location they are coming from.

I also don't quite see it as the real world around me, more of an "inner eye" overlay.

The color and shape (and often texture) depends on the instrument and tone. There's an older 360° video on youtube that comes somewhat close to what I experience

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

That's really cool

Unless you have tinnitus, then it's probably hell

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

What's the coolest-looking sound?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Same here on the resistance to pain meds. I had a such a terrible experience with surgery. Once I woke up I was in such agony but I was also tripping hard from the dilaudid and left over anesthesia that I was unable to communicate effectively. Once a doctor finally listened to me many hours later, they gave me a cocktail of other stuff that finally eased the pain. I also really struggle with dental work.