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‘It’s quite soul-destroying’: how we fell out of love with dating apps::For a decade, apps have dominated dating. But now singles are growing tired of swiping and are looking for new ways to meet people – or reverting to old ones

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Dativerse when? Seems like this is ripe for disruption by a free solution

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've thought about it before. The thing is with all the images getting loaded so much it would get expensive quick.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I think the bots and scammers would pose a much bigger problem

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

And wait til you see the pool of actual candidates.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Easy solution: date the bots and scammers!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I think those could be dealt with, but just the sheer bandwidth of someone loading 3-10 images per profile and then rapidly flicking through them and onto the next one...

The storage costs would be one thing, but the bandwidth of that would be another entirely.

As much as I'd like to think that people would donate, I've found the majority of people to be pretty cheap and unwilling to donate money for something they can get for free.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yet Lemmy exists right now with videos and everything

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I think most major instances only allow linking to videos and won't allow you to directly upload it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yes, why can't Lemmy just work for that?

Just create a "City Nama, M4W/M4M/W4W/W4M.MM4W...etc"

That would work no?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

No, because newer or more upvoted is not better. The way Lemmy is set up for news makes it bad for leaving a page up for your profile and getting people to look at it over time

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

There's no women on Lemmy tho.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Not with that attitude

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Anyone can be a woman with the right leg and penis tuck strategy LOL.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

It turns Into hookups and sexually explicit pics if reddit was anything to go by. But if it was for relationships not just hook ups, I'd like it.