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[โ€“] [email protected] 29 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Probably a loving partner, and enough therapy to be able to have a healthy relationship. But that's a lot of work, so I mostly try to be happy in my solitude.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It's a lot of work for sure. Good luck to you ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿค

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Thanks. Trying to fix myself up more first

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Sounds like a solid plan!

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm a person who enjoys their solitude. I know my partners not the same but I also know there are other people who very much like to stay to themselves. Maybe you can find someone who you can both be in solitude together with.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

That would be great, but I'm pretty bad at meeting new people so ๐Ÿคท

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Same. Working on boundaries and seeing some improvement. Definitely not where I want to be, but much better than where I used to be.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

His name is

H1Jack

Cadillac

on the track.

He's getting back

in the black

on the attack

blocking flak

making you yak

yo slimy gak

like ipecac

cause you whack.

But in his pack

we got no lack

with H1 Jack.