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Eyes.
Go fuckin' big.
I still regret not doing it before I met my spouse; the idea gives them panic attacks because it squicks them out so much, but it's one thing I've wanted to be able to do for 30+ years, a solid 10 years before it was even first done. Finally had my chance when I got divorced from my ex-, but met my current (hopefully final) spouse too soon to do more than email the one artist globally that I actually to do it. (FWIW, that artist is Luna Cobra).
JFC don't do this. It's so very dangerous.
There's a reason why I only trust one person globally to do this. As far as I know, he's had a very low complication rate. But I'm also willing to take that kind of risk with my own body.