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Wow, thanks for the detailed and nuanced insight. I'm sorry that something like that came into your life, and I hope you're ok. Such a sad story.
Eh, I mean, clearly I'm not OKAY with what happened. It was a goddamned tragedy. But apart from initial shock and disbelief, it didn't really affect me psychologically at all. It had been 4+ years since I had last spoken to him, and I wasn't actually involved in any way apart from getting updates from my mom when she'd talk to his mom. So it didn't leave any lasting effect. Not on me at least. I feel terrible for Maddie's family and completely understand why they'd want him to rot in prison forever.
I've got two kids now, and if somebody did that to one of them... there's a good chance I'D be the one in prison forever once I got ahold of the guy who did it.
Yeah, understood. Thanks again.