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what's something you're into that you don't want anyone you know irl to know about? (lemmy.world)

submitted 9 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I really like fanfiction. Reading and writing it. Nobody in my life knows and I plan on keeping it that way.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

My wife tolerates it on occasion, but it's not her thing. She's a lovely wife for doing it for me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Do you do all the prep work so your back door is squeaky clean?

If not, that could be the reason she’s not as into it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I do make sure things are spic and span back there. It's just not her thing. That's OK, I'm not complaining at all. Relationships include a lot of compromises to love and support your partner. She does this for me once in a while even though she doesn't love it. I do things for here that aren't my fav to do, but I love doing them because they make her happy.