From Vaxry's second blogpost:
However, it was brought to our attention apparently you have decided to take to posting about this to your blog.
I have full rights to do so, just like you apparently had the right to post it to your mailing list.
I didn't dug any deeper, but it seems like Lyude also published the communication between her an Vaxry, if I understand it correctly.
Why do they run two lemmy instances?