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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Oh god, I really hope my phone doesn't do that when it records. The recording button is on the screen during calls and I accidentally hit it all the time.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I'm surprised at how hard seeing Max again hit me. I don't have much interest in playing a new LiS game, but I still got unreasonably emotional dredging up memories of the first game.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Do people really expect it to be anything other than just more GTA? The bar doesn't seem to be set that high.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

That's a franchise I didn't see getting rebooted again. I'm intrigued, it's got a very Square Enix Deus Ex vibe coming from the abilities shown off but it could really easily just be linear mandatory stealth section set piece stuff.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

lmao that's cool as hell

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

What are your thoughts on polyamory?

If they are polyamorous, it's a no. If they have been polyamorous before but say they're looking for a monogamous relationship this time, also no. If they use the term "ethical non-monogamy" in a positive way, even if they claim they're monogamous, straight in the fucking bin.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I'd happily take anything Eve related if you're offering, I got sucked back into it awhile ago

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I have used a check. I'm more likely to be able to get a mortgage and buy a house than to be accepted for a rental again, though I'll likely die before paying it off. I still keep a fair amount of actual cash at home "just in case".

Will be interested to hear your guesses.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

Imagine a time before instant communications, where you have no idea how life has treated the recipient since you last saw them and it might take months for your letter to arrive. It is a sincere hope that they are well and that tradgedy has not befallen them.

It would be neurotic and unreasonable if your last update on their life was only days or even hours before, but in the days of letters hope is really all you had. It's just honest.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

To be fair, I'm certain that someone has written it with that as the intended meaning. It seems like the kind of passive aggressive thing some mannered British aristocrat would do.

[–] [email protected] 58 points 6 months ago (13 children)

It has it's roots in actual letter writing, as in "I hope this letter finds you well".

[–] [email protected] 28 points 6 months ago (2 children)

There is an often reposted study that shows people who are worse at video games are more likely to harass women. Though these are some issues with the study and it's scope, this more or less matches my experience. However, this is usually transformed via a game of telephone into suggesting higher skilled players are less misogynistic.

I have played at the top level of multiple games over different genres and it is incredibly misogynistic up there. The key difference is most of the nerds up there are less likely express it so obviously and publicly. In a lot of cases this is purely about self-preservation, teams in competitive games will be collectively penalized so there is a degree of self-policing (nobody wants to have their team disqualified with all that money on the line) and in PvE games there is usually a great deal of time (and lets be real, often money) invested in an account people don't want to lose.

It's gotten a lot better since the "tits or gtfo" and "there are no women on the internet" days, but the last time I was in these circles was only during COVID and it was still wildly misogynistic behind closed doors.

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