gramie

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think that's part of the puzzle is definitely that small children don't get embarrassed or ashamed if they make a mistake. Adults and older kids do, so they stop trying or they limit themselves to what they know they can do well.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

I went to a double feature because I wanted to see The Tin Drum. First I had to sit through another movie I had never heard of that sounded really corny: Runaway Train.

Starring John Voight and Eric Roberts, and with a screenplay by Akira Kurosawa, it was extraordinary. Certainly not just a cheap action flick.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I've been using this for about 3 months. I would estimate that my dog walks are now about twice as long as they used to be. I don't really enjoy walking, but this gives me just enough incentive to do it everyday and, if I feel like taking a shortcut, taking the long way instead.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

You can also play at the Internet Arcade or Classic PC Games on archive.org.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

The chainmail creators for tge Lord of the Rings movies made so much chainmail that they were their fingerprints completely off.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

As someone who self identifies as on the spectrum ( I'm over 60, so I doubt I'm going to be tested, but I have many -- but not all -- typical autism traits), I would say that it's true for me. I have never been close to people, even my own family. I've never had a very good friend, and when I move away from people, I typically don't keep in touch.

Foe example, both my parents died in the past 2 years, and while I feel a sense of loss, no strong emotions. If I lost my wife or children, I think I would continue without feeling significant trauma. I know that I'm supposed to be devastated by those kinds of losses, but it just doesn't happen. I don't really have strong attachments to anything or anyone.

I don't think I'm a bad person, it's just the way I'm wired. I don't like to see people suffer, and I have a strong aversion to conflict, so I don't believe I'm a sociopath.

So count me In as one of the people who believes that autism can be related to a lack of empathy, based on personal experience.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

That's right. If the debts take up all the money, then there is nothing left to inherit. And if there isn't enough money to pay all the debts, then the debtors go away unsatisfied. In no case do the heirs have any responsibility for the debts.

I should emphasize that this is in countries governed by English common law: the UK, Canada, the US, Australia, New Zealand, etc. I have no idea if it is true in countries following the Napoleonic Code, or anywhere else.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

Debts are discharged before heirs receive their inheritance.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

I would guess that I've been seeing variations on that sign for at least 10 years, maybe 15.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I understand the concept, but I have never heard the term Native American used for anyone except the indigenous people within the United States of america.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That's interesting. I don't think I have ever seen someone refer to an Aboriginal Canadian as a Native American. Native Canadian yes, but native Americans were always south of the border in my mind.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That is completely terrifying. You must be spending a large part of your life desperately dealing with medical bills and trying to juggle the unreasonable requirements of the various parties.

And of course, having health insurance through an employer binds you to that employer, so you are less free to switch even if the conditions are otherwise deplorable.

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