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[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Then this might help: remember that even as you try to set boundaries between yourself and others, you can set boundaries within yourself as well. e.g., you could watch a movie depicting a fictional narrative of a not-good-faith event, and decide to at least attempt to not be triggered, or at least quite as much. You cannot control the world, but you control your response to it, and you deserve to be happy:-). Though you need to find the route to get to it - even in spite of others attempting to ruin it for everyone around them, to become as unhappy as they are.:-(

I guess you already said this, sorta, in that when people act that way, you respond to increase your happiness by getting away from that source of toxicity. But I mean something deeper, which you may also already be doing, in terms of setting the boundaries within yourself, to not feel unhappiness about their actions.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (4 children)

To me, the key is always good-faith.

Abso-frigging-lutely. Even the dumbest person, or maybe someone with a bad memory, but who is trying can eventually be trained, or else constrained, whereas a malicious actor can do everything "right", until they get what they wanted all along and then cause the highest magnitude of harm.

I like how you are approaching it intentionally, which demonstrates awareness and intent to make things better for yourself, and also others as you plan ahead for what is most important.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

We ALL are that way. :-D

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

I thought some of the older ones, like 2000, were more secure, with ability to access on-chip security features. So ofc they threw all that out in favor of 10, the final OS that would come as a subscription service, meaning that you'd never need to buy one again. And then they threw that out too, in favor of the next one... and on and on it goes:-P.

I absolutely hate Windows:-(.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (9 children)

You can do whatever you want.

So too can they.

The balance point lies somewhere in the middle.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 11 months ago

If you were close enough to take this picture, then you were close enough to influence the outcome... I'm just saying... :-)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Since when have they not? (Though the reverse is not true.)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (5 children)

Makes sense - why allow people to administer their own machines? :-P

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (9 children)

Computers mostly don't force software updates on you, unless you tell them to. (Caveat: IT routinely forces updates on people.) Find the setting where you specifically asked the machine to keep itself updated, and turn it off. If you can't find it, throw the machine away and get a better one where you can be in control:-P. This concludes my sermon for today, I hope you all have some Happy Holidays!:-P

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Voting is too dangerous for the likes of you, lemme just take that from you there, yeah that'll be great...

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (2 children)

sudo make behave

I'm just going to leave this here, in case anyone needs it... :-D

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Not me, I'm th first one.:-)

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