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[serious] What are your most important boundaries you've learned to enforce? (lemmy.world)

submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Nobody tells me what I'm going to do or where I will be going and when that happens

I am open to invitations or requests or suggestions where my involvement is desired or ostensibly necesary for somone else. But I will never respond to this as a statement of fact or in the form of a threat

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (9 children)

You can do whatever you want.

So too can they.

The balance point lies somewhere in the middle.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah. I came to say I don't think in terms of boundries. I have them but I generally don't know where they are till the lines crossed. One thing that is a pet peeve of mine though are individuals who probe for the lines. Someone strays into the gray zone to often and they are gone.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

We ALL are that way. :-D

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