Nefara

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

In my experience it was like making new friends but more stressful.

Dating felt a lot like looking for a job, trying to find prospects, going out on job interviews but with a relationship at stake instead of employment. You start with this rough pretext of wanting to get to know each other, and you ask questions about things that are important to you, muddling through small talk. You try to be entertaining, showing your best self until you get invested enough in each other. It's stressful but can also be exciting because when you find someone you get along with it can be exhilarating.

Then, if you know you like someone but are unsure about whether they reciprocate your insecurities go nuts. You live in two simultaneous imaginary universes where in one, things go well and you live happily ever after, in another they declare you unfit for their life goals and leave you hurting and back to the grind of searching. Then, if you get to it, there's the comfortable period of having your relationship defined and developing on what is ostensibly a good path and you can relax more and show your "real" self. If both of you can tolerate each other at your worst, that can lead to a proper partnership which and should feel like hanging out with a best friend. Your partner becomes your go-to person to enjoy things with and consistent companion, which obviously can be really nice.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

When your kid runs at you to give you the most enthusiastic hug of your life just because.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Haha, that pre-bed burst of energy where you get more done in an hour than you did most of the day, and then get to go lie in bed with your mind racing about everything you were going to do and will definitely do tomorrow instead of sleeping, and then feel guilty for not being able to stick to the schedule people are asking you to and that your life demands, yeah that shit is the best.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It's been a struggle all of my life to live on a diurnal schedule, we are the cave guardians

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Toxic Magic fuckery could fill this entire thread. Hell, just toxic blue deck fuckery could fill this entire thread.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I have an irrational dislike of her voice and the way she talks but nothing against her as a person or a professional.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I just bought a bunch of onesies and toddler clothes directly from Carter's and the Children's Place. They do seasonal sales and loyalty points so I actually got a better deal than on Amazon. Got the packages within 5 days each. I bought diapers from Target, they came in two days and I got a $20 giftcard as part of the deal. Next time you need something, try going directly to the brand's website, or literally any other retailer. Amazon spams search results but they aren't the only store on the internet.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Not necessarily, people don't travel through time in Dune but they do see through time, and Spice specifically enables humans to see the past and future. I can theorize that actually traveling into the past is something only intelligent machines were able to facilitate. It could also be a situation where the high tech solution (lasers) has already been countered (shields) so the low tech solution (swords) becomes the better weapon. It could also be by a mutual agreement, or simply lost tech.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yep, for just about everything you get on Amazon there are alternatives. You just go to the supplier that sells the thing you need instead. Amazon hasn't had real 2 day shipping in a long time. If you really need that "everything store" experience, Ebay, Target and Walmart all have decent online marketplaces but might as well use the smaller stores. What's keeping you on Amazon? It sure as hell isn't its search, and tons of sites offer free, fast shipping. I have to assume it's habit.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Terminator, the Matrix and Dune are all the same universe at different points in time.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Timothy Dalton's James Bond died deep under double cover in Hollywood in a tragic airship related rocket pack accident.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Who would find throat warbler mangrove hard to pronounce?

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For those who missed the trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pygcgE3a_uY

Don't try to tell me Beyond Earth was a sequel, Stellaris is more of a sequel to SMAC than BE was.

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