I just think it's quite funny that in their justification, they project their own arrogant judgemental attitude towards those they justify their own behavior against.
[it's justified because] best case scenario, [the reason why] you don't [have social media] is probably from having some sort of arrogant judgement value about people who do
seriously? I think that's where people disagree.
it'd be different if they said:
a single woman setting up dates is going to use what limited info they have to avoid stalkers, cheaters, red pillers, and anti social people. That this might filter out perfectly normal people along with the creeps is the cost of maintaining safety and not wasting time, which is pretty much par for the course in dating
but that's not what they said, and that's not what people are responding to.
Imagine if some guy said:
"honestly, dating women who have social media is a red flag, at best they're probably attention whores, but there's also a good chance they're a cheating slut."
now imagine if someone responded to the "rustled jimmies" with
well, obviously they meant ((something else))
same thing, they should've said that then
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