AuroraBi

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’m turning 24

Also, the first dialogue is on the right because that’s who’s speaking. Considering I draw everyone of the same gender identically, I should’ve reversed the speech.

 

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I agree. This is what he says:

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Like the other comment said, ghosting is not an excuse even with poor mental health. I’m about 6 years older than you and I know if I was having anxiety, for example, I would not ignore or abandon my girlfriend over it.

He can still try to make time for you, even if it’s not a lot, and then explain why he’s been less talkative rather than flat-out ignore you.

However, by what you said, Sam seems to acknowledge that and realizes he was wrong for it. That’s a start.

he also “forgot” about me when he would give gifts to other people, wouldn’t mention me under “people he appreciates” but would mention everyone else, and wouldn’t even tell people abt me.

This concerns me. The other stuff is bad enough even if he acknowledges it but I wouldn’t say he was ever a good BF regardless of mental health from this.

Not only should you wait until his mental health gets better, but for him to mature. He’s probably inexperienced with dating and emotionally immature at just 19.

Hope you find someone else in the meantime 💖 It seems he’s not meeting your needs and frankly wasn’t too loving to begin with. And yeah, try being friends but remember: Just because he’s a good friend doesn’t mean he’s a good boyfriend.

I’m feeling cute, enjoy these pictures I made!! (Seriously, they’re supposed to make you feel better, not be offended)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

No, this is ableist. Disliking and disrespecting another person and treating them like they’re less than human when you wouldn’t if they weren’t autistic/you didn’t know they were is very discriminatory.

What if it were another group? If they treated you this way because they were straight and you weren’t, or if you met them online and they found out you were black? That would be homophobia/racism, so this would be ableism.

I’m sorry this happened 💕 💝

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Well, are you trans or doing this for aesthetics/hate being straight?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

Yes, nothing you say here describes same-gender attraction. Why want to date people you don’t like that way?

I’d understand if it were the other way around and you were a lesbian convincing yourself that you want to date guys but straight people are already accepted by everyone, there’s nothing to worry about and while you can support us, you’ll not only subject yourself to discrimination by saying you’re bi but also seems weird, as if it’s for aesthetic purposes.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Her name is “The Hetero Angel”, so it looks like she stopped.