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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (14 children)

Just check their comment history for like 30 seconds. Everyone makes a joke that misses the mark every now and then, but the shittiest people usually constantly spew their nonsense.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Respectfully mention that it's kinda insensitive, kinda like, "hey man, don't you think that's kinda insensitive?" and you'll probably figure out fairly quickly which one is the answer. Additionally, if they legit don't know why it's insensitive, then you can educate them!

Just remember that tone can be difficult to convey on the internet, and sometimes you have to exaggerate the intended tone for it to be understood. Additionally, in my experience, asking the question from the other person's perspective ("don't you think that's kinda insensitive" vs "I think that's kinda insensitive") seems to help a lot.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The shit posters drive a wedge in a community and the people who don't like the "innocent" jokes leave. This makes fertile ground for ideological take over. Rinse and repeat in Fandoms, subreddits, message boards, etc.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Alternatively, the people who are so brittle that shit-posting causes them to somehow turn on half of the community were always going to volatile puritans.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What? Maybe some people join communities for fun and togetherness. Not amateur hour jew jokes or whatever.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I agree. But the discussion was shit-posting, not racist jokes, or am I missing something?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

A careful read of the meme shows were talking about edgy, borderline right wing shit postings.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Just don't punch down. Simple as.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I only punch interdimensionally. Damn those lazy Gorblecks.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Define punching down.

Is it economic power? 400e minimum wage here

Is it history? 400 years of Asian/African colonialism

Privilege? Amazon, any official manufacturer site and PayPal don't work here. We just got Google Pay and Apple Pay.

Slavery? The word slave originates from the word Slav and we had nothing to do with colonialism.

I'm a white European and I am way less privileged than any US minority, technically we Slavs are also POC in the US.

So I technically can't punch down on Americans. These kinds of things are dumb since you can't know someone's ethnicity, race, sex, country, etc. online.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

So I technically can’t punch down on Americans

Black trans women in the United States are routinely assaulted and raped and have an HIV+ rate of 60%. You sure about that?

My point is that targeting vulnerable groups for humor isn't funny, it's just bullying and it's sad. It shouldn't be a controversial point.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Post history helps

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Poe’s Law. Without a sarcasm tag it’s impossible to know if the person is being sarcastic or is that extreme.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

The problem is the red ones take the orange ones seriously. Please don't feed the trolls.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Tbh this is what I love with (uncensored) internet. It’s hard to draw the line between sarcasm and mental illness.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Right wingers aren't mentally ill theyre just wrong and have reprehensible morals.

Please stop using mentally ill as an insult. Fascists love that, see R word, calling people autistic or schizophrenic as an insult, etc.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah but also it enables stuff like Nazi dogwhistling soooo lmao

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Nah. Your definition of a Nazi is just anyone right of Mao. This place seems to be where the tankies went after getting banned from Reddit for encouraging violence toward people who don’t want to slob on government’s massive boot.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Are your reading your own comments before posting?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Lemmy seems to be more middle-left with just a few vocal extremists on both sides, actually. If anything the largest 'extreme' group i've seen here is anarchists, kind of the opposite of communists lol.

And the groups that do turn into a bunch of 'tankies' (slowly stares at Lemmygrad) have been defedrated across almost the entire fediverse...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

There is such a thing as a "non-extremist" right-winger?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Yes, Joe Biden.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The probability of encountering a "non-extremist" right-winger is exactly the same as of encountering a "non-extremist" left-winger and is quite small. The vast majority of people are moderates, either left or right leaning.

Also, from the European perspective, the American left aka Democrats are quite right leaning :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Oh look... an "enlightened centrist" has shown up to run interference for the right-wingers.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago

Oh look, a person that cannot distinguish center from right. I wonder how you drive if you can't into directions.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago

Incredibly, Reddit was better in that aspect.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Remember when people could take a joke not just thin skinned so they have to make it political?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

One day you'll have developed your frontal cortex enough to realize not as many of them were joking as you thought.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"stop targeting kids" is a joke to you?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Of course it is, gotta have that audience with children haven't you. Disgusting groomers

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Ah, it's one of you imbicile cult bois.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Sure, I'll click on cult links. 🤡

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