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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I only use it because there's no way I could convince my friends and family to move to anything else.

There's no point in switching to another app if I then literally couldn't communicate with the people I need to through it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I've been using Beeper a month or two. They had a long waiting list, and initially it was subscription only, but they are working on smashing through the waiting list and have changed to a freemium model where you get it for free and (eventually) they will have extra features for subscribers.

Basically, it's one chat app that connects to lots of different chat services.

If you're technical, the app is a fork of Element, and the service uses matrix bridges to connect to different chat services, but it's all presented in a (somewhat) polished way. The wait list is because they are still struggling with scaling and quirks but if you're on Lemmy you're probably already well familiar with putting up with this.

It covers heaps of chat networks. Whatsapp, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Signal, Telegram, and more. It also will let you SMS (unlike Signal 😬).

You can also connect to Matrix rooms but you don't seem to be able to connect to an existing Matrix account (it uses a Beeper matrix account to connect).

It doesn't do video/audio calls so they recommend you leave the original app installed and disable message notifications (but leave on call notifications) if you use this.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

app is closed source :/

Looks cool though

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yep. But if you're keen on this stuff, you can self host matrix and the bridges and do it yourself. Their bridges are open source, just not their apps whose features are their business model.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wait until you hear how many people use facebook messenger.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The thing it's missing the most is better multi device support and an updated desktop client.

For me, I think Matrix is more complete (specially since it backs-up your chats and media encrypted). The only thing it's lacking (at least Element specific) is encrypted chat search support on mobile.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's no way that we can have a mainstream alternative to imessage if we keep declaring a new app or protocol the new best one every two years.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

All Google needs to do is make a public RCS API. Then we will have all the important features iMessage has on Android via regular texting. I have no fucking clue why they are making RCS exclusive to their messaging app.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't think it's really a chat app. Isn't it just a text replacement? Or does it just use that number as your ID to use it? I have it, but only ever used it with one guy.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It has lots of nice features over SMS: read/typing notifications, image/video support, proper groups, message expiration. I think that makes it a chat app

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I was implying mms as well. Didn't know about the other additions. I only knew one person with it, and we haven't spoken in years.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Here, use this:

calvin from Calvin and Hobbes cartoon sits smiling behind an upturned box used as a desk. His arms are outstretched on the box top with fingers interlaced in a way that makes him looks expectant of customers. Text on box removed by me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

SMS is IE, Whatsapp is Chrome, and Signal is Firefox. Use Signal/Firefox.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I disagree. IE was incredibly proprietary, and SMS is at least an open standard.

IE is...idk Facebook messenger or Imessage or something.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

signal and telegram are so much better, don't know why we can't get over that shit app

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Tbh, Signal is really lacking features at this point. That's making it incredibly hard to convince others on using it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

telegram is awesome but please don't use it if you're looking for total privacy, as (by default) chats are not e2e-encrypted (this is done to improve sync/seamless multi-device chat history).
also they introduced a discord nitro-like subscription like a year ago and started putting all new features behind it....

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Look, I hate Facebook just as much as the next guy. But I live in The Netherlands and it's the primary way I can contact literally everyone I know. So changing to another messaging app is hard here.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

In some countries like India, people just assume that everyone uses whatsapp. It's gotten to the point where whatsapp has become the definition of messaging (for most people).

I don't see how Whatsapp is outdated to the point where one would compare it to IE, but I'll say whatsapp is more like Google Chrome than IE.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Eh, whatsapp isn't ideal and its owner is one of the big devils of today, but it's the only way to send and receive instant messages among billions of people. I despise it, but it's the only way I can contact people. Needless to say, they don't give a single flying fuck about privacy.

Whatsapp outages make people migrate to Telegram for 1-2 days at most, nobody ends up staying there. Signal? I've only ever met three other people in RL who have even heard of it, and I work in IT.

A more apt comparison would be to languages. Whatsapp is english: clunky, weird, full of nonsense, but it's what "everyone talks". Signal would probably be lojban or esperanto.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

This is SMS in the US. No one uses WhatsApp, telegram or matrix. Every iphone user uses imessage and so we are stuck with SMS.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As a Signal user and an Esperantist I agree. They both require a somewhat curious mind for you to bump into them in the first place. Unless you have that friend/relative who always recommends weird stuff for you (to ignore).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Why would it even be weird or anything? I only use Signal and its pretty much the same as whatsapp on the outside...just in blue. The only reason people dont use it is because "eVerYonE hAs WhAtsApP" and they dont bother. 20 useless crap apps but 2 messengers is too much

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Chrome is the Internet Explorer of the browsers.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Right, WebKit is the alpha versiΓ³n of Blink and KDEs KHTML the ancestor

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Such a weird statement. webkit is and has been a fully released browser engine for decades, companies forked from it for licensing and profit, not because it wasnt ready or complete (at the time)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Same as any browser engine, there isn't a new engine since 20 years. Apart of Gecko, Blink and WebKit there are nothing else, apart of some experimental ones, mostly discontinued. WebKit is a fork from KHTML (KDE) and Blink is an improved fork from WebKit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Fuck Steven Crowder and any meme based on his bullshit

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

in our country we use viber and I don't know which one is worse

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's a name I haven't heard in a long time… what country?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

My family in the U.S uses Viber. We switched when hangouts was originally going to be axed. Tried to get everyone on Signal but was told it wasn't as friendly for the elderly family.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I wish people would stop using the Crowder meme template.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’ve somehow never used WhatsApp.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No idea. It’s just not a platform anyone in my life has used in a manner that dragged me in.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Two letters. US.

They use SMS still.

Unless everyone they know has iPhones.

Then it’s iMessage.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Surely it can't be so popular it's inconceivable to you that someone hasn't used it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

If you live in most of Europe or definitely Latin America, yeah, it is so popular it's kind of inconceivable not to use it, or at least hard to imagine. I genuinely don't understand how people in the US communicate.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It is. To stay in contact with anyone you need whatsapp.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Well I'm glad that isn't happening here, because I would just have to miss everything.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

WhatsApp seems very conservative with adding new features. I generally feel the features they do decide to add are all pretty useful. Telegram on the other hand doesn't ever seem to slow down with the new features. Many of them seem great, but just as many I would never use. I'm still wondering why Telegram won't introduce end-to-end encryption as a default.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The whole sticker implementation is absolute dog shit. How hard could it be to do a half decent implementation with customizable keywords for searching, custom sticker categorization, and backups? I have hundreds, if not over a thousand, stickers and it's impossible to access them quickly to find the one you want. You end up just adapting to whatever is on your most used list, and you're stuck scrolling for a while to find a different sticker, which In an active chat group it means you end up reacting super late to everything and the chat has moved on at that point.

MSN and the MSN+ plugin had this nailed down 20 years ago. Even telegram has a better implementation where you just add the entire sticker library for each new sticker; you end up with stickers you didn't ask for, which is a negative, but everything ends up categorized in SOME way at least.

Its also ridiculous that whatsapp can't be bothered to offer sticker creation in-app.

Dont get me started on chat participants count limitations and how utterly USELESS archiving a chat is. You can mute the chat and archive it, and a single message will just pop it back to the top of your list, as if you weren't trying to actively avoid that. And whatsapp has been pretty useless for big chat groups such as big neighborhoods and the like. My HOA hasn't added me or my friends to the neighborhood chat groups historically due to size limitations, which in itself perpetuated a toxic approach from the HOA where only sycophants are allowed into these groups. Most neighbors are left in the dark over decisions and meetings, which is utter stupidity and has 100% been aggravated by whatsapp's limitations. Doesn't matter that they've implemented alternatives to this, you try to get hundreds of boomers to understand how to use community chats.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You must live in a huge neighbourhood. Your points are valid, though you can now choose to keep chats archived even when receiving a message. Settings > Chats > Keep chats archived.