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Posting this here because the metal community seems to be entirely links to tracks and I'm not sure how well received this would be there. Also, I'm open to anything that goes more on the punk rock side of things. I like a little punk in my metal and a little metal in my punk (which is very subjective anyway).

Basically as the title says. I'm bored of my current selection of heavy music and looking for new stuff. To per-emptively get ahead of these answers: yes, I've heard Kittie, Nightwish and Arch Enemy before (actually haven't listened to Kittie since the nu metal days and maybe I should check them out again).

Two bands that I have found in recent years that I absolutely love are:

In This Moment. They started out as pretty much straight metalcore but have a noticeable evolution with each album, to the point that the most recent album sounds like this. Evolution is something I appreciate in a band.

Butcher Babies. Just straight up chaotic. And good shit. And they're even named after an old school punk song. Chaos and attitude is something I also appreciate in a band. Pity that one of the vocalists left though, having two vocalists was something that really set them apart.

Any other suggestions?

Edit: wasn't expecting so many great suggestions here. I promise I'll make my way through each post and suggestion here but it's going to take time. In the mean time, thanks everyone. At this rate I'm going to have more than enough new (to me) stuff to listen to.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago

So female fronted metal is my jam. Your examples have a solid range, but here's some of my picks:

  • After Forever
  • Beyond the Black
  • Ad Infinitum
  • Delain
  • Within Temptation
  • Unsun
  • Cellar Darling (and earlier Eluveitie if you don't mind male and female singers mixing)
  • Amaranthe
  • Stream of Passion
  • Illumishade
  • Lacuna Coil
  • Leaves' Eyes
  • The Murder of My Sweet

You'll find a ton of female fronted bands in what (I think) is referred to as "scandi-metal) (Sacndinavian Metal).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago

Brutus. Stefanie Mannaerts is the lead Singer and drummer. Simultaneously! She is absolutely amazing and has so much power in her Voice. My favorite Band of 2025.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Jinjer, Arch Enemy, Unleash the Archers, spiritbox (and iwabo), Devil Electric

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Female fronted, Halestorm

All female, Kittie

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Vana The Pretty Wild Enemy Inside Not Enough Space Poppy Foie Gras (gothy music)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

If you like death and a more extreme sound you have to listen to Crypta. All female band and they are honestly one of the best out there. Impeccable riffs, drums and singing.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No one mentioned iwrestledabearonce yet, so a toss out if that. Rad metalcore band from when metalcore was rad. For (much) less metal/more punk or riot grrl vibes check out Amyl and the Sniffers and Be Your Own PET. Don’t come at me if I used genre names wrong with those.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Spiritbox has been mentioned elsewhere in the comments, but I'm not sure how common knowledge it is that they were started by former iwrestledabearonce members.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I only have a passing interest in metal, but I heard about this Indonesian Muslim all-female metal trio (Voice of Baceprot) a while back and was impressed when I watched the videos of them playing. It's trippy to see them wearing hijabs and all while kicking ass playing metal: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v4728NJ7B8

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Not sure about the genre but I recently discovered Blackwater Holylight and I quite like them

https://youtu.be/8EMq6Q_6d0Q

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Animal Alpha - Bundy is a favorite I return to every now and then. I don’t know the rest of their music

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Loved this song on while playing burnout

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Have you tried hard techno? Check out Cassie Raptor

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Blackbriar, Unleash the archers, Ad Infinitum, Spiritbox, Amaranthe

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)
  • L7
  • Lunachicks
  • Veruca Salt
  • Bikini Kill
  • The Muffs
  • Cibbo Mato
  • Blonde Redhead
  • The Evens
  • Shonen Knife

Some of this is more punk or pop-punk.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

To add to this already awesome list

  • The Gits
  • Bad Cop Bad Cop
  • Amyl and the Sniffers
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Missing babes in Toyland here

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Nobro is pretty good, they toured a bunch with Billy Talent so if you like that flavour of garage punk they might be up your alley

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I posted this on a similar question a few weeks ago. I’ve been down the rabbit hole with these bands lately:

Stitched up heart, New Year’s Day, September mourning,

-chick singer led goth metal bands

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

War on Women is a group I really like from Baltimore. feminist punk metal. https://waronwomen.bandcamp.com/track/white-lies

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 15 hours ago

Noooooooooooooooooo! Aw man.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Dark Moor with their first 3 albums with Elisa is great.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elisa_C._Martin

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

This is not exactly my kind of music but I just wanted to say how cool this whole thread is.. you’re all amazing

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Hanabie

Especially this live performance and their album from 2021 has some real bangers.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Birthday Massacre, Within Temptation, Lacuna Coil, Eths, Infected Rain, Amaranthe

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Amaranthe's awesome. My workout playlist is mostly them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Calva Louise is also good. The music videos are crazy cool

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Spirit Box, Rolo Tomassi, Cellar Darling.

Poppy, more her new music than old. Some people don't like her style but it's not strictly just hard metal.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

+1 for Spiritbox!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Check out Unleash The Archers

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Burning Witches is a classic metal band (inspired by the likes of Judas Priest) that is 100% women. Infected Rain is fronted by a woman as are Mysterain and Ad Infinitum. (I've got loads more but I read the responses first and sliced away the ones that were already mentioned like Unleash the Archers, etc.)

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Wow, that took me down nostalgia road...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Arkona, Kontrust, Genitorturers. All from quite different subgenres.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Since i haven't seen it here and it's one of my favourite bands: iwrestledabearonce

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Spiritbox and Conquer Divide!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Kittie, Jack Off Jill, One Eyed Doll

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Along similar lines, System Divide, though I think they only had one album.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

If you're willing to go more the punk route, look into the riot grrl genre. Sleater-Kinney is a good starting point.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

I love Myrkur's stuff. How heavy it is varies widely from album to album, anywhere from straight traditional Danish folk music to the lighter end of black metal, but I like both ends of that spectrum

There's also Feminazgul, who I'm not super keen on but their name is so good that they deserve a mention anyway

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Brothers of Metal (despite the name). If you're into symphonic stuff, Epica and Beyond the Black are worth looking into. I also love Halestorm, but I think they're somwhere between hard rock and heavy metal.

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