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What are your flirting techniques? (lemm.ee)

submitted 4 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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My go to is the "See yourself as the price."-approach. When you jokingly set her up that she is hitting on you. For example:

Her: So, you want anything to drink?

Me: Oh I see, already trying to get me drunk, eh?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

I show her my card collection.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I find that cringe tbh. Just be curious about the other person and talk like a human, not like a creep. Asking shit like "are you trying to get time drunk?" might sound funny to a man, but it is a legitimate concern for women and makes you sound like an arrogant teenager.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm kind of bad at actively flirting with someone. My flirting technique is to be interesting to look at while I listen intently. But it's kind of worked out for me so who knows?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

be interesting to look at

Do you mean, like, facial expression, makeup, or...?

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