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I love interacting with you all very much, and I know there's a lot of important political issues in the world going on right now. I love my Linux Mint setup, I support Palestine and trans people, and I've blazed through all of OG Star Trek, TNG, Voyager, and am now on DS9.

But I also want to discuss Luka to the Lakers and Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile and getting 5 Grammy's, a tour, and a Superbowl halftime show out of it, you know? I wanna talk about your country's Eurovision entries. Am I just not in the right communities?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

It's not like Reddit stopped existing. Lemmy will (hopefully) never be Reddit. That means that some itches Reddit will still have to scratch.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean, post the content and people will come? I think a lot of people would have commented on these things if they saw the thread

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)

This is true, but 1) It's hard going from a passive consumer of a community to a facilitator of discussions (I have anxiety issues lol) but also 2) It's hard to even know/find if there's a community TO post in, you know?

Maybe I'm just a Lemmy noob after almost two years here, but I do find community discoverability harder here, and there's always discussions of fractionating communities even further. I don't want to risk creating a new community, take up server space that my instance host generously provides, and then find out it was redundant.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (4 children)

DAE is what? I know, but i need reminding.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"Does anyone else" sorry, I was trying to keep the title snappy

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I know, thats why i asked for clarification. Thank you!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I love that the snark isn't here yet. Lemmy still seems friendly

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Oh snark is here in spades. Im guilty of it a lot myself.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

There it is. You win

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

DAE is short for Does anyone else.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I haven't followed pop culture since about 1985. I've never heard of Kendrick or Drake (apart from Sir Francis Drake and Nick Drake, and of course you can't mean either of them, given they died in 1596 and 1974 respectively).

I like it here, not least because I understand a lot more of the things people talk about than I ever did on Reddit. Perhaps the users here tend to be older on average, I don't know. There are certainly fewer people than over there, and that must account for some of the differences in content scope.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

All the power to you! I think I also like it here for similar reasons as you. I can get a lot of advice and perspectives from people older than me without being called a slur.

For example: I learned about Iran-Contra from someone who was actually living during it and explained to me why exactly it was seen as Carter's failure, when I have the power of hindsight and history and can see how it was clearly manufactured. At no point was I called a bleeding heart or libtard during that explanation, even though the person made it clear they voted for Reagan. It was nice!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

I would probably subscribe, as I love collecting and discussing all kinds of random events.

Youtube has been my main source for this stuff since I left reddit for good. I really went deep into Kanye/Drake since it was still considered a rap battle.

I watched hours of the Sean Combs development.

Mr Beast drama has been a big part of my entertainment as well.

And while my Youtube feed is usually sports free, I couldnt escape the Donçic transfer.

I dont watch TV or streaming services, so this is my entertainment before going to bed. Giving me world-politics that late just keeps me awake.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile

OH SHIT! That's right! I forgot! Kendrick was doing the half time show! 😂

Thank you for posting this! I gotta watch the half time show now!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Watch for the enormous shit eating grin behind the microphone when he says "Hey Drake" on stage.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I’ve never wanted to be in it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Yes, although a lot of current pop culture stuff is so vapid, commercialized, and unstimulating that I could not care less about it.

I’d like a good place to keep up with and search for local events, follow local businesses, and discuss hobbies and lesser known series but without being beholden to a corrupt billionaire who owns the social medium and without rewarding bigotry and mis/dis/malinformation with advertising revenue. I’ve found a couple of Discord servers that only partially fill some of these niches. Some of these problems can be resolved by growing Lemmy communities around certain topics, but I don’t think most social media/marketing managers would publicize on media with relatively few eyeballs.

Does anybody have a plug-in or a web function that can, for example, transfer a company’s Facebook page’s post history offsite? Also looking for a good live feed of events in an area? (I tried Eventbrite once but I got scammed with the refund denied)

I’ve been thinking today about how the mainstream means of mass communication and organization have been taken by corporations and grifters who manipulate them to algorithmically reward ignorance and bigotry, and how these social functions need to be seized back for effective and lasting progress to be made. Education is next on the chopping block.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I find that I see memes here about a week before my wife shows them to me (presumably from reddit)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

The memes here are definitely in 3008.

But you can't really...discuss a meme, if you know what I'm trying to say (sorry I just woke up). In my post I gave examples of world events as my "pop culture". I'm not really discussing memes around a water cooler, you know?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago

There is [email protected] for USA news without politics.

Not sure if there is anything similar for world news.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

I just bought an hd antenna for free over the air channels. It's apparent the elderly are whom those channels cater to. There is layers of pop culture and you connect to the layer you want to connect with.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I haven't been in the loop since 2016.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (8 children)

Pop culture is mindless drivel to keep the masses complacent.

Create the posts you want to see.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

God forbid people enjoy light hearted and mindless entertainment. Do you think they must be focused on whatever you think is important all of the time?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

I think society would be better if people focused on issues that actually matter and not The Masked Bachelor Miami Edition yes

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