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[–] [email protected] 52 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Neither, I'm not into kids

[–] [email protected] 13 points 10 months ago

The real answer

[–] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Why? So I could disappoint two people at once?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

I can barely disappoint one woman, I don't think I could handle two.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Redditors of Reddit, sex, am I right?

Believe it or not, despite all the furry porn in the all feed. Lemmy isn’t horny enough for posts like this OP

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

I dunno, I see lots of replies here? Being it horny-driven or not.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

One of each, please! I'm pan

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

^ I'll have what she's having.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

Given my life right now, it would have a couple of no-shows.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

4some is better, you can go for longer because brakes are possible.

Also never have a 3some with straight people. They have expectations that will never hold up to reality.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

I’ve had all combinations of threesomes and concluded the mmf is the most fun

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Nonbinary Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―

[–] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago

So no sex with 2, 4, 8, 16,... partners for you?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

There should be at least one women involved. I don't think MMM is for me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Wel I guess I know what I’m doing for Mo’ Muscles Movember this year

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Girl/nonbinary on the femme side. Reason: I'm lesbian and the people I date are generally lesbian

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Hey if you don't mind me asking do you have any tips on meeting someone new?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Take up a hobby that requires you to be at another location with other people, whether that's writing in a coffee shop, reading at the library, playing board games at a board game cafe, etc. It seems blatantly obvious as a sentence, but to meet new people you need to meet new people! On top of this, we tend to naturally form bonds with people we routinely spend time with, as long as they're not awful, so having a reason to be routinely at the same locations as other people makes it that much more likely you'll form bonds.

Good luck, Internet Person, and don't forget to let who you are shine through!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

I love not awful people

Thx internet stranger

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Make it a surprise! More fun that way.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Definitely a woman, seeing as both my current FwB and me are mostly into women. πŸ˜… (That'd be FFM, for clarification)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Clarifying a cryptic abbreviation with another cryptic abbreviation doesn't really help matters I'm afraid.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 10 months ago

FwB is a friend with benefits, usually of a sexual nature, and FFM means either Frankfurt am Main or a threesome with two female and one male participant.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

Friends With Benefits

and Female-Female-Male

:))

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

One another lady I'd say. Easier that way.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 10 months ago

Whatever my partner wants, because I’m asexual and told them if they want intercourse then they’ll have to get it from someone else.

If they actually want three participants, they’ll need to find someone else. I ain’t joining that.