These kinds of men that are constantly focused on what it means to be a 'man' are the biggest fucking insecure snowflakes of them all. These are the kind of people who act like their entire race and gender is being erased when 1 in 10 Marvel movies don't have a white male lead. When all attention isn't on them, they spit their pacifiers out and wail.
Take this election for example. It wasn't about them. Even if they don't care about queer people (we know they don't), it was also about doing the right thing for their mothers and their sisters and their daughters. But because the poor, hard done by white man wasn't given as much importance as people who are literally getting their rights taken away, they decided join the oppressors and spit in their mothers' faces.
Not because they're men but because they're pieces of shit.