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Nope still don't get it (lemmy.world)
submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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[–] [email protected] 78 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I had a girl start choking me when we made out in the back of my van for the first time. I have never been choked nor choked, so I didn't really know what to do in the moment, just rolled with it. Later asked her about it and asked "is that what you like" to which she obviously said yes. People are horrible at communication, no wonder that relationship failed.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago (1 children)

If you didn't agree to it beforehand, that can be an unpleasant experience and possibly break your relationship.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I didn't, it was, and it would have if I wasn't so horny.

In hindsight I should have listened myself. It never got better, only worse. And now I've been single for years because I cannot trust anyone.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

I understand, it is really scary.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

We've all been there lol

I remember one girlfriend back in the day told me to talk dirty to her so I said "do you like that bitch?" While fucking one day and she broke down crying and I spent the next 30 minutes holding her balling her eyes out..

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Hope you learned what dirty talk is after that.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

"The dishes need to be washed"

"That mirror needs to be cleaned"

Hope I'm doing it right.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Looks right to me. :)