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Should Lemmy hide downvotes on your own posts by default? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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There is a pull request which adds a new setting show_downvotes with these settings:

Show (current behaviour)
Hide (all downvotes hidden in ui)
ShowForOthers (only downvotes on other user's posts are visible)

Importantly the last option would become the new default, which means that users wont be aware that their post or comment was downvoted unless they manually change the setting. This may be good for mental health, but may also make it harder for users to realize that their content is unpopular. What do you think about it?

Here is the pull request

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago

Regarding mental health . avoidance is generally not considered a good thing. one of the criticism of why technology is bad for cognition is that it creates a very pleasant experience but solving problems and achieving meaningful outcomes in the real world requires delaying gratification and accepting negative experiences

Emotional regulation and resilience are skills. if you don't get negative experiences you don't get to practice those skills. this is why helicopter parenting where well meaning parents do too much for their kids end up creating psychological problems like lowered self esteem.