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What's the hardest thing you had to come to terms with? (lemmy.ml)

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For me it was the fact that I would always be slower than everyone else and I would have to put in twice the effort.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

not to sound corny, but becoming self aware of who I am a couple of years ago and identifying the best path forward. since then, my life has been so much better.

its really hard to admit to yourself what your faults are, but once you do, the next steps should work on how to fix the problem and not beat yourself up over it. I'm not exagerating when I say I've never been happier.