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Is it bad that i'd be down for that ๐ญ. I mean as long as i'm in the position of control and am not doing the weird stuff i don't mind weird kinks.
I mistakenly believed I was in control too but she had all the control. She decided when we engaged in her fetish, how long I had to tickle her, exactly how I had to bathe her. It was exhausting sometimes to get to my reward.
That's the way bdsm folk like to view it! And this is part of that tbf.