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‘It’s not you, it’s me’ is the gist of college student qualms with dating apps. Hook-up culture declines while young people search for genuine connection.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

And dating people at work is practically forbidden now

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

That's probably a good thing.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You know you don't have to tell your boss you're dating a coworker right? It's not their business what you do in your off-time. Dating people is legal. Do you tell your parents every time you take a shit?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dating someone is not a protected class, and unless there is a demand for illegal action or potential whistleblowering, then you can get fired for it without consequences. Helll you can be fired for ANY reason as long as it's not retaliatory or in violation of protected class

Dating people is legal, which is why you don't get arrested for it. But that ain't got any overlap with business policy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

*In the US. In countries with decent labor laws this doesn't fly.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just can't fathom doing that even if it was perfectly acceptable. I hope these are jobs people don't give a shit about or they have opportunities for something better. I don't (currently), so if things went south, which for me they tend to, I would be sitting here in a very bad state.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Eh it depends on the workplace. My wife and I met at work through friends, we've been married 13 years, and I think we've only ever been in 2 or 3 meetings together (and those were unusual situations, not regular projects), and we practically never have contact "professionally". It's a large workplace, and there are quite a few couples floating around.