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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

There's a difference between tone policing and humility, a pretty large one, in fact. Huey P. Newton (and myself, by extension) are not blaming those emotionally exhausted or tired. I refuse to condemn those who speak truth to power, or who have a fiery tone. Lenin is one of my favorite writers, and he never held back. Same with Frantz Fanon. However, I have found a good amount of success by trying to be patient with others, and this is a fact I've had to grapple with.

Basically, even if patience is more effective for some people, I refuse to condemn those that choose a more direct and confrontational path. Finger-wagging about "civility" is obviously wrong. Moreover, legitimate fascists and reactionaries are not the same as "well-meaning but misinformed" people as I originally spoke of, and generally should be outright opposed with little care for civility or hostility.

The voices of marginalized people should be especially listened to and not tone-policed in any way either. Racists, transphobes, homophobes, fascists, and reactionaries in general should be openly made fun of and combatted viciously.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Moreover, legitimate fascists and reactionaries are not the same as "well-meaning but misinformed" people

Yeah, this is the big point. If they're "...[invalidating] your humanity, and the humanity of people you love," they are just abusing your patience, and don't deserve it. Fuck those people.