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Okay the title is a bit exaggerated, but honestly not far off. This post is very mundane and a bit long, but thought it fits the community.

I'm visiting my home country and went shopping for pants, there were "30% off everything!" signs with a tiny text underneath that said "member discount" (don't have membership). Not a problem, did not notice and I don't care for such marketing tricks to get you into the store but okay.

Picked up couple of pants, went to the cashier and they asked me "do you have our membership?" - I answered no and expected the follow up question whether I'd like to join, but, to my positive surprise the cashier just happily responded "okay, not a problem!" and continued to bag my stuff.

I stood ready to pay and then the cashier said "now I just need your phone number and you can pay". Hold up. What. I did not expect that, I honestly had a burst of anger inside me (never gonna take it on a cashier, they are just doing their job). I asked nicely why do I need to give my phone number and I was told that to register me as a member so I can get the discount.

I declined and said I don't want to join and would like to just pay.

The entire interaction after questioning why they need my phone number was awkward, as if I had been the first person to decline, the weirdo, aluminum foil hat wearing hermit.

This was just one of many interactions in the recent years that make me feel as if I was a weirdo for not sharing all my info around. The worst is when everyone keeps telling me "its just an app, just download it and use that why do you make things complicated" or "just sign up you don't need to pay anything".

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, that'll teach a lesson the minimum wage employee who didn't make the rules.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

It doesn't waste their time. They are getting paid by the hour. As long as you are friendly it doesn't hurt anyone to give a wrong phone number to get a discount.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I am absolutely not advocating rudeness to the cashier.

Give them the opportunity for malicious compliance.

Allow them to answer every question and have a pleasant break from the monotony, knowing full well that they are being cheerful and helpful just like the training videos and handbook demand they be.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I am absolutely not advocating rudeness to the cashier.

IMO, lying to somebody, specifically with malicious intent (as opposed to a white lie to avoid hurting somebody) is rudeness. Just because they might not catch onto it doesn't change anything; you're being a bad actor in this scenario, and taking out your frustration on somebody who had nothing to do with your ire.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

well that's like, your opinion, man.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Except the person you just signed up for unwanted spam texts.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

(Area code) 867 5309

It already has an account, and nobody who gets that number keeps it for long, it may not even be assigned anymore because of how much spam it probably receives.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

People do have that phone number, you know. It's not reserved or blocked.