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Let me preface by saying, I have my SUV all set up with a bed and a kitchen and all the amenities I need to camp out in the woods. I like it that way I'm enjoying myself I see no reason to change.

A couple of times I have mentioned that when seeing a doctor and the next thing I know, here comes the social worker with a stack of papers. I tell them that I'm doing fine. That I like how I'm living. I didn't ask for any unsolicited help. And they don't seem to listen at all. At some point they just leave me with a bunch of paperwork in a huff. I don't understand why they get so upset just because I don't want their help.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Why on earth is your doctor even allowed to share your personal situation with anyone? Did you consent to that? Else it's a quite severe violation of your privacy.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You'll flip when you find out that there are circumstances in which they are mandated by law to share your personal information. That stuff is regulated to hell, and rallying resources to help people sleeping rough is a good thing in my book. Maybe OP doesn't need the help but the other 99% of the people living on their cars are at huge risk to life. Starvation, hypothermia, malnutrition, human trafficking, prison, just to name a few.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

A human trafficking course is required to review my healthcare license. They're not used to seeing people with your skillset. Also, people who do adventurous things often do them well past the age where they're safe. Just making sure that you know you have options.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Insane. Where I'm from they are not allowed to forward anything. Not even billing information to a third party payment provider without explicit written consent.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

It's usually strictly regulated what is allowed and what requires consent. Like I said, life saving is usually the intended criteria. That's how child molesters are caught. Are you gonna ask diddler daddy for consent to put him in prison for giving his daughter HPV?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Different pretense, if a kid is identified as a victim, authorities will be informed since they haven't reached maturity yet, and the alleged perpetrator is the legal guardian.

If an adult falls victim to sexual abuse, they will not inform any authorities on their behalf but leave it to the person.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

If an adult is a suspected victim of human trafficking the police will be alerted despite their consent. Sexual abuse victims will be contacted by police and social workers as it is their job, not the doctor's, to offer assistance and determine the consent and course of action to take. Same thing happened here, the doctor is not qualified to make the judgment call, so they call someone who is qualified and authorized to make such decisions. For doing so, the doctor is permitted and expected to partially disclose patient information, like identity and anything they saw or heard that prompted them to call social services or police. As they did in OPs case. This is not the violation of rights you think it is. It's actually a sensible compromise to try and protect the most vulnerable members of society. Adults can be vulnerable too.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Shocking twist: Kintarian is 12.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Idk, I once got threatened by a doctor for admitting to marijuana use. He said he was going to report me to law enforcement. It never happened but police kicking down people's doors over suspected marijuana possession was definitely a thing that happened a few times in that town. The mayor even started a brawl with some medical marijuana picketers once.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Weird. I've never had a doctor that gave a shit about marijuana use.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Varies based on location and doctor's non-medical beliefs.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Yea I believe it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If that was anytime in the last decade or so that's horrifically illegal.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Depends on the country and jurisdiction

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Uhh...if your doctor refers you to someone else within their own practice, that's in no way a violation

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It is where I'm from. Not even nurses have full access to the patient file. Confidentiality exists between doctor and patient exclusively, that's why I'm so shocked.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

In the US, medical records within a practice or facility are able to be accessed on a "need to know" basis by those working with the patient. If your doc refers you to another specialty, whoever comes to see you will have access to your medical record. Strict disclosure laws apply to releasing info to entities outside the facility