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As an autistic person how do you stay motivated (more specifically doing long tasks)? (lemmy.world)
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Mostly asking for other people on the spectrum, but allistics are free to comment also.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

But one of the biggest lessons I have learned along the way is that those people who say give it 100% are not for me.

A thousand times this. I've been in group therapy most of this year. A lot of faces have come and gone. I've gotten so tired of hearing variations on the above (along with the usual suggestions of task chunking, do X for Y minutes then break/reward, etc). But I've also learned how to handle it better. I assume good faith on their part and do what I can to explain my experience. Not everyone is going to get it, and to them I usually say "I hope you never understand." But there's almost always someone else nodding along... it's nice to not feel alone, but at the same time I feel awful that they know the nightmare.

I'm happy you got that second chance. We all need a mulligan sometimes. But so often it's not an option. Society is all round holes, and has little patience for the square pegs. I somehow made it work for 40 some odd years, but it took its toll.

And thank you for the kind words. Best to you as well. ๐Ÿป