this post was submitted on 11 Jul 2024
898 points (98.7% liked)

memes

10117 readers
3529 users here now

Community rules

1. Be civilNo trolling, bigotry or other insulting / annoying behaviour

2. No politicsThis is non-politics community. For political memes please go to [email protected]

3. No recent repostsCheck for reposts when posting a meme, you can only repost after 1 month

4. No botsNo bots without the express approval of the mods or the admins

5. No Spam/AdsNo advertisements or spam. This is an instance rule and the only way to live.

Sister communities

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 51 points 3 months ago (4 children)

And then there’s the people who tell me I can’t have arthritis I’m too young, I shouldn’t get it in my early 20s. My goodness what an idea I can’t believe I didn’t think of that

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Most people don't really understand arthritis and how many types there are. I sure didn't at first. I dealt with the same thing in my early 20's when diagnosed as well.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Oh 100% I can’t remember what type I have off the top of my head

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I feel you so much. I have migraines since I'm around 8 years old. Back then, in the late 1980's many doctors were of the opinion that children do not have "Headaches". And they told us so repeatedly.

Today sience has caught up on this fortunately and when my niece started to have bad headaches at around 9 years old, there were whole protocols of diagnostics and treatments available.

I was just lucky that my mom had awful headaches as a kid as well that went away with her first prefancy (typically for migraines to start or end with a big hormone change) and she never got diagnosed with migraines, but she still knew how it feels and that I wasn't faking for more attention as the doctors said.

I'm still unconsciously scared that doctors won't believe me and I make a plan before every appointment of what to say, so they will believe me. Its not rational, but I still can't shake the feeling.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Aw man I got a few chronic illnesses (not just pain, stuff like adhd and type 1 diabetes) but I could not imagine being in your shoes. You’re a real one

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

As a 17 year old, I unfortunately can relate.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

my response to that would be "Well then you better go take it up with god, because the bitch done fucked up then, cause I'm in fucking agony every waking moment of every day, and just cause I mask well doesnt mean entitled cunts like you can come up and question me as if you are some appointed arbitrator on the matter"