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I think the tons of hook ups in the twenties thing is because most people don't really know what they want and if someone will lead to a toxic relationship. They have to figure that out by trying out a bunch of things that end up being totally wrong for them. You sound like you have a really solid idea of who would make a good partner for you. It takes most people much longer than their early-mid twenties to find that relationship.
If it's really bothering you, maybe try out the relationships you think won't work, just to confirm that you're right about what you want.
Tysm for your reply & advice. I try not to think about it but sometimes it gets stirred up but 9 out of 10 days I'm trying to see the positives like not having the risk of going through a break-up whilst studying & working. ^^