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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I think the tons of hook ups in the twenties thing is because most people don't really know what they want and if someone will lead to a toxic relationship. They have to figure that out by trying out a bunch of things that end up being totally wrong for them. You sound like you have a really solid idea of who would make a good partner for you. It takes most people much longer than their early-mid twenties to find that relationship.

If it's really bothering you, maybe try out the relationships you think won't work, just to confirm that you're right about what you want.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Tysm for your reply & advice. I try not to think about it but sometimes it gets stirred up but 9 out of 10 days I'm trying to see the positives like not having the risk of going through a break-up whilst studying & working. ^^