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Well because the struggling people are blaming you when you don't tip. They should blame the restaurant owner. But they blame the diner instead.
That's why people take servers/waiters as the "enemy"
I definitely don't see servers who support tipping as 'the enemy', just idiots.
I was literally a server for years too.
How about we all agree that restaurant owners are the enemy? I don't care that the 20 year old server working for the weekend doesn't understand the nuance of the labor they engage in. They're being exploited and you think that they're the root cause of tipping culture, when in fact, it's always been the restaurant owners.
I think you're deliberately misinterpreting what I'm saying. I am saying they should blame the restaurant owner.
But it certainly doesn't help the situation when the server is blaming you and being hostile because you didn't tip enough.
Doesn't matter who gets blamed, if things were ~~corrupt~~ (correct) the customer would be paying the same amount as tipping that much. Tipping culture just gives the customer a chance to shirk.
Well if you are calling it "shirk" then it's basically required. If it's required why even give the illusion of a choice?
That's my point. Tipping culture is stupid.
Consumers should pay the cost to consume, including materials, operations and staffing.
It's not an illusion of choice, it is a choice, and a choice that abuses workers and confuses customers.
The thing is the consumers are paying the cost. The business owners are just taking more of the profits. They just need to pay the workers more.
And the "choice" you mention is a false one. People can't really refuse to pay a tip, can they? They'll get a lot of hostility from the staff (who have been brainwashed to think that it's the customers' responsibility). Notice that this isn't really a thing outside the US.
People can refuse to pay tips and some people don't care about that hostility.
Most people care though.